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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。0pj@6u2SeT4V,d

rQ KH+Co `z 他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。3@x0m!}7i

c s:h Yx~$Zv 我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。P8C1SzRi?
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| U/m\u#xD(t 他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？t#Kl {/I'K
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他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。
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C-Z1VN4Cy_z 我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。

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他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"Ax9U@q&]J5kG/T(w
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。.Q uy2h!Mt(WsM&u

&~8vMb;p/LI 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.h+RW?#k-TK

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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
,i }+Y YG4\/h.l 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解