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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。E%e$Y
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看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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B}0PBaF 他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？
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我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"
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+yc1tZ-e3N i u 他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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E 当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。PupvH0}7e
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N1o;T8Z%D3E8b;I1q 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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k[kfs:rU"Z 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
xQz1Vqc\ 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解