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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。
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o2?,z:[x3R7f8a9Cv 他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？Dc-vMYI

~6u!s)h6GV 他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？p
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#l7x$b7|E,`r8w 他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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`,K'[.P7Xr 我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"d?%f| d)F0c,Pm

D"QH8H v*c$Q!n 他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"$dM ^{+u
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。 S7eK?g*FKeC

$Y6k6o#Vo3h(Xz 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。6aJgh^*crs
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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_(p%enSZ 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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g` a-sS&| He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。"cpEF3@-A
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解