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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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5 M; a; x  O' K, J8 v+ K3 F4 g5 T看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。4 Z2 k- p( a0 Z$ z1 |
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?$ y, y: h; T* r

/ B. Z$ J& T. w. l他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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& r, e! i+ G7 X3 }我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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% ]" y, H- y$ \$ _厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"xmjeep.com) E) _# F2 z# ~. l4 N
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟* i) U+ V/ _  F" K& j8 _2 E

0 q! P4 c6 h, w1 h, F- D3 W真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟0 G) j- n4 q9 V+ h
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。xmjeep.com: N, H5 ]& h; H
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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# d# R9 K+ v& m5 ~+ V, j) g! f2 u厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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. ?7 A- \# K- L+ KHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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& r+ ~1 l8 q9 r8 qI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.5 O% i7 H0 L5 t

# H% f( W3 s3 w0 d1 M* c! [On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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8 Z6 @1 p$ N) S4 VThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟- E! r$ @7 K/ J/ E& Y2 J4 U" ?# V
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.# M% c  i$ d; K0 ~6 u2 g

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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?厦门越野联盟& g& O* a: \. R  e2 S
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"./ u6 M, ?8 o9 R: G8 {

7 A8 J7 w2 U. k4 ~True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be./ n( ^, B+ F8 ?6 T/ a. I
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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5 Q6 D* P+ ~4 p8 exmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.0 S4 ^6 H4 T% [, B9 ?: m
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 c" _- ]4 N- \$ W# q- ?
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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