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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。xmjeep.com5 A* g( T' c$ |; ~
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。& `3 K' m! z" Q7 t5 K

' O, X8 k3 S7 C" P1 Z7 N我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。0 z8 Z9 b$ m) e/ N! R

9 {( s  n6 v; \3 S厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟( Z' d, z# ^5 N: K' a+ E
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。' w( n8 |( o" c

; o. O! w6 ~3 w我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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, ~5 o8 p& X- {' p, D1 g& S他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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+ ^1 m- V1 D1 [5 o8 B7 O他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"/ o7 D# f& o' F5 `0 [, `

" G+ Z, w& \6 a0 k' p% Q) p1 I当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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/ e# N) b8 P  \0 z* _真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟# }* O- e" Q/ ^; \% E6 N8 ?- G4 q
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。; D/ S( J% w$ v9 g
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain% P3 l" X- k' _+ E. V, h0 M

1 U3 O/ X6 Y4 \8 I3 D厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.& l2 R7 V& W; i
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) W* [$ @1 D4 `/ ^+ h! YI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.xmjeep.com7 a4 J& n6 k! K& r+ X
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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0 a% e! J5 @7 [- \On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry./ \! Q- B/ ^3 f5 h& F' g5 z3 C

3 L% Y6 f1 O, ], D+ ?0 ?- DThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.' t' u! |) H3 X

8 M- Z2 o( a( Wxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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  S2 n6 E0 S2 N0 u- |He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now., P5 j1 z2 }/ m/ w: I0 ]
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".3 u6 x( X( K  J3 K4 W# R4 g, s
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟$ h) c9 H6 A( w* q0 ]2 r
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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