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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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6 p8 O( d; q  N* n+ g他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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# ~$ b1 _% C" Z8 E4 X4 M4 O: |看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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0 U& t) ~# B- G; u他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟. A5 H" t/ E1 H* z

9 O% Q. |- r1 G( t' Gxmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。- p8 Y8 }* c3 P# a4 p/ F$ \( p
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?$ K+ x: q% v/ x/ x0 S/ n

, S. f- I. r# h' B9 y! r# f" ]他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。  e* q: S3 |7 ?9 \2 m) j6 j6 {' t' z/ N

+ ]" q- f6 F4 H. _1 [我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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% d1 L$ d: o: t' H% r他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。1 P, J9 y3 H2 f) ]8 a2 L

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作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain/ S- l) H0 b) f9 m; s

; j9 G. F$ Q  j  ]厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com$ P2 y  p# e# ?0 u/ O0 k  L# S. n* s+ Y

( c. o$ f/ {# \0 }xmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.& v; n" c0 d6 H# t' V+ s0 N

( [; T( O# O; ?厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.: k" ^0 \# ~1 i" Y" L( g+ L

3 p( o+ z7 T; x# v# ^+ c" P4 Q2 D/ rI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.6 l' k# R5 |/ q  P. c  r: t
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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# K, Q" G: K1 ]* BAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now., x" ^3 F1 v& @+ V! a

' ~" v- {, `" Y6 k; k" x4 q厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?3 j1 `: ]* W/ K8 q5 O0 B+ P! v# M

2 f" x& W; o& X: Y* w! n# g* J' DHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".5 h+ i3 f, K7 H3 _

$ _0 I5 `& T5 r# g) K9 ?0 mI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com; H0 P8 P& N* B# z8 V0 x+ o" Q. m, g; Q% a
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com" e/ g/ o7 g0 f) P

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) A* E3 j9 k( K" f$ bLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com4 ?. B4 S/ ~/ }7 X7 ]* a* m
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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