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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。1 o1 K2 ]& H( |& @

0 k- |: b6 G1 {我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com) `& G$ n( F, e8 M8 c
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。2 {: E5 }% F% j# U/ I

' e7 E' Y- h5 D- l: k我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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/ B0 C5 a+ z/ [4 b% G+ U+ [- s我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?/ z' x0 R5 X6 t$ b- i

# E/ E4 }$ t1 ~5 m2 w$ w2 }3 D他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。( z6 {$ S; n0 Y2 C* J
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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. z2 C; m. R' w' M2 J$ f+ \6 Jxmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。". _! E$ r  u2 z/ L- a) C' \& e

/ g* E- n: O1 B! J2 Z+ J厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com: F8 t1 d% K. |/ c6 f

. R/ e, k% i* M2 D7 y1 I! ]5 R厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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5 t$ X6 {5 D* o. U& N/ w+ x最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainxmjeep.com4 F! [( X9 ^0 d$ W# E

+ }3 U: u  [4 V, ^It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com2 a2 Y' L( r8 m7 p  ^% i
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.* B, x4 l) B* M( v3 M$ m% C

8 j8 I# P2 m8 T, j; j( TI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.' x: t5 T3 t- n& K; C+ c, ?1 E
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com. U; C8 A. N! s5 W6 p$ q

( W3 {( x) F" e3 H. `7 O  ^xmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.% h, d3 W7 z  y
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease./ ]) e4 T. k9 O' n/ |0 y5 `

' D1 R% {: |- l, O, DAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com" L/ k" _: z- S9 }& F% b
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now./ B# o5 |* ^* M- y7 q! Y5 s

; p  y( H5 p, e& s  C7 \厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com# N8 l, _! \; C' _$ I! Y" f

8 I) N$ Q) t& D5 F2 R5 ZTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have./ E, H- L  S9 Z& y; ^0 q

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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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