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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。5 ?+ ~* i) ]: q
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。; N; |, i5 O2 d% z" O+ g- J/ g7 e/ S" [

7 t$ \3 p) C3 i: z0 v看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟; g8 }1 q( \& Y* B1 f

% M8 Q& f& w& }/ i& [他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?4 M/ W6 \& C7 @- z" v$ e; _
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。2 Z+ B1 C# W; N! Q! ?, I! L

# S3 n& W- F8 z+ p3 |xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。& w" B8 U8 M1 r" t1 P
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。$ a4 g/ Q! n& h: P$ w: w1 P& L7 g/ `
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"xmjeep.com2 M3 A7 C! `: I0 |3 }

; I9 ^( ^" z- a# X0 `( \6 S3 N5 `他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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0 ~/ f& h" N. G: S$ `% c厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com+ \/ S% P/ L( V  C3 e

* u& Z6 n% j, F" e3 K9 {5 s& i真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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* Z5 t. {4 _6 G% G最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟) D( Z' O7 O! @9 q; m

& r, V3 \5 s% y$ jIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com; d& q- B0 ?+ u+ Q) A( K6 I

; X0 r; I8 J3 D4 x0 w7 }' S厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.2 t9 p, _' x& X+ d& g8 X

: E& Y0 y, h2 U+ O( p厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟) |3 v# n0 s7 f/ v
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟( G' s7 @: E' w' U  o, U3 s3 q

1 [) ]4 |# H2 @3 A5 s5 C9 F% o! Y厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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0 K' O2 v( {3 [The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.7 q! |/ w1 E# ~  S9 |* A

7 {+ ^% D* u' l/ r9 @8 s* Y, D厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com2 j# i" J" U  B# G7 h
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.  \, E, [4 l. r/ R- _
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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2 u& T& W- \2 `  }' V7 B* A2 [- ]He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".4 W3 o6 `4 i5 E% a) P, O

1 d! Y4 d; h0 z( CI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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. u8 S/ Z8 G. _$ \9 qTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.6 M# I( W" y7 C! q% ]+ `
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。+ l6 u7 t+ V. X4 Y( R- m
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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