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标题: [转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞 [打印本页]

作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。6 E& B1 t) @( Q3 I* w
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。  ?8 t2 O0 _+ B5 Z/ X+ a; L

! y: M% m5 ]& _  y( V; v7 e! C  X看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。* }: B0 b5 j0 G9 Q

  v) S6 i) K' s1 J他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?( C8 l2 N; U" u5 k2 N

5 b) r/ }; u7 d厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。  }- L- S* Z8 b' R! s0 K; |' u* |

% J1 X7 k; p! D* {7 s; H% b7 ~( m我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。* ^  ]0 ]0 P9 q; _( q
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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6 N2 W/ s2 V- K& T% W他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"xmjeep.com2 x* G; v% i5 K3 N! h; u( S5 m
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。7 F" d5 t/ |- ^. H6 X8 I5 s
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。' W* g; `; {! Z' t( c% ?
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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5 U5 M1 Y1 _: X+ O生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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: N- z; y. i4 |/ [: S6 CIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟& P' g! \$ D9 g; S6 ^' m
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com) {, j8 ~. M" L8 x

( n0 U! F5 h4 \The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com$ J0 |# F( L$ {1 ]) {
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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. E' s& ^! r% |) V! O9 bHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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* I0 S; s+ w' H  A, e9 t2 bxmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?6 D  ^# k6 S4 e: I# f! ?+ h6 e

% K% G# l: M6 O8 v! SHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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, E* R7 ?' p' o* JI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com# X2 p+ r& c0 u. _

; j1 d' S, _7 d0 }2 UTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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9 `: m1 p' o/ U' I厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.) @  e2 a, V3 m  T: l' z) r0 Q

7 R7 d* p3 }9 f* x' N% mLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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