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作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:13     标题: 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。! o6 l* H# |. f! S0 q

* B0 Y$ K0 H: ixmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com" w8 s1 k! \; h: Y+ n  H. X

* ^5 h* Z; }! ^" P2 Q* ~他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。; E# F  a3 V# {8 ]4 @% `7 x/ Q
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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% C% j2 F& H% q, U( }( m6 ~他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。- F; b- ^9 x( e5 j" E, X$ ?. N
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"* l, c& h  u2 @( Z
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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% m: H% D% e# G0 m" Q- ^. B7 J) k当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。- b' ]; S: [( o' K# \% t

6 u/ g( `4 \1 _6 H5 y6 X# o+ {2 H3 ?真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟3 |6 W7 o/ E. q$ f0 d
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。* F6 P: i4 ~6 x: T* a

' @, a/ ^# Q1 p! h3 ~9 T3 \8 l生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
作者: 二月花    时间: 2008-5-6 15:16

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainxmjeep.com; V6 ?% j" Y+ p" m# E& \

' @7 y# \& d" s2 Z. c8 qxmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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; b3 P( k/ i, u' J2 GHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am./ N2 B7 z( n$ d, v2 i; z

4 f: M. s. O& [- y  n8 e' M  J0 B" o  {I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.6 X2 x! l) J* l
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟' O+ @. t% J! @1 ?( o
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.: L% M8 j2 y* h) l; J& {2 V, c

# m& @' e! m& XI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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9 E2 l( W  L) B4 C/ f7 u厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.; \$ Z' ~  p6 k+ k
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟+ w; A# O! n+ `0 S5 M& J( q

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作者: 纤腰    时间: 2008-5-6 15:20

好   感   人!  :)
作者: 巴西朴树    时间: 2008-5-6 17:04

还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
作者: 野熊    时间: 2008-5-7 10:51

顶起。
作者: 蜡笔小新    时间: 2008-5-9 17:58

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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作者: 龙飞野燕    时间: 2008-5-12 12:27

帮顶............................
作者: 舞蹈人    时间: 2008-5-13 11:04

再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
作者: 裂樱    时间: 2008-5-13 13:08

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
作者: 小渔    时间: 2008-5-13 14:24

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:
作者: 花儿    时间: 2008-5-16 12:50

让我对幸福有了另一种理解




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