! t Y+ o1 ]/ [9 h5 N当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com9 b" Z6 }) j/ z/ q
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真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。 8 X$ f ~9 J- o5 i( T- e5 W3 v 9 i2 n5 i. @2 W! r7 ~最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。$ e* f) q4 l, \" `4 V9 s$ ~
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。 作者: 二月花 时间: 2008-5-6 15:16
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain / B3 [0 V, G6 \* ^- y1 H& L4 R9 \) m; r! @, C6 M. t# c: A
It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com% A) O1 d2 S& \0 X; V2 v/ N. ?
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him. 1 l* w5 i6 k3 p7 A' ?% g x/ ~& Jxmjeep.com% d, T0 I% F: d" }, v R3 G1 y
I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. 3 S$ R6 @% O. p1 p' T8 D0 y& x3 Rxmjeep.com , q3 g0 D# W: u6 l2 [' |" d9 XOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.9 o) W$ T7 Q& h
2 C5 q+ w3 {1 e7 r0 V3 Q; d. KThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. " u; z W$ {6 ?# M" G, i" c( W0 x/ b: n* R
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.xmjeep.com. N5 a2 j; c7 ?% X9 k9 h
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?xmjeep.com( X' B- G0 Y M+ u& y
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".: l. I8 o" U- r+ y4 [! P, A, o9 S
1 v0 l( e! b9 Q! g厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life". ( C* q1 a% A% a, E, ^" B8 u: d3 _. m0 A
True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com! w7 L/ Q; [7 a9 G. b
# z# o) x/ k% H8 X9 O+ a+ M3 ?The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.& W8 U$ f- k% _; y# Y+ H3 k
7 t' d% `! ]2 a) Cxmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain. 7 p% O- K: \ U% y' Wxmjeep.com: `4 ~. g3 K, F) |. F7 R
中文由BOKANG翻译！ 作者: 纤腰 时间: 2008-5-6 15:20
