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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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7 B! @* X' T  O) T5 u看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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1 r6 j( z7 f( c$ R0 [' x* E5 y他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?) g' _7 |0 D7 o( [. y6 m

9 h  `. g$ Y4 b) L2 I" m& C/ \- w他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。, l2 @: I) ]+ K
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com5 `  J4 P% s* i- V! l/ E7 z1 X# ]

, }1 |- e6 p* [5 j厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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) H& s% a" H( \$ f我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"- E- `( d' U" n# U" z" m; b( v  a

. ^( G6 I; q1 E! L5 C: g他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。; e9 u/ T8 ^; a0 |4 T: m, j2 `' K

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain- I% n6 a' L; ~, P3 l7 ?2 a+ c

( C( t/ J1 e3 d% sIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.6 d" ^; S$ e* Y; d% u4 x
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound., d, [% R) Y, U0 a# X% z* }7 F
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.4 t. p0 M  ^9 I0 w) d9 d$ \: E, z' U

! l0 S# U! P- N4 bThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟. }5 A& S/ i: b/ O7 ^  M" o$ L
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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% e9 N7 P2 D0 }- c: m+ aHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?$ s. ~) d8 @( S
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com/ K- y8 [: ?) H* D  Q: c) ^* l
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"." p9 ~- z- n+ _& |/ i) x# _) Y

/ _% ^( `. ^- W8 Z# a+ N! V6 ITrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟1 Y5 M# c& R9 z. F& `

/ g3 k: T( t( ]  y% \The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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2 D% X3 Q$ w) b1 u: eLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com. T$ ~+ W, A2 v: i% ^: m8 a+ O
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。) k: [8 Y/ x' D6 y% U* O- @7 l  b
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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