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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。* m6 l% y$ e4 T7 f5 R

& h9 D5 |& I( ]5 v$ Y& qxmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟$ P& w' j5 `) `$ Q3 P  `" R; t% Q

/ z2 n8 r6 D3 \他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。2 |% S& i4 S' d

) N% u: K* ?; G我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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& L7 l8 E0 h7 F2 m9 t" z0 w我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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: K8 V8 R( k- i2 R! V4 I! c当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。+ [* R6 B7 K' C8 d: S, d

) }* B/ h# J8 H$ R0 C- E7 Y& e/ G厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8 e9 i$ `. m7 Q, y6 }1 y3 }# ^
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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7 ], R$ e) Q2 c! A( @8 a2 Z, H4 s% Fxmjeep.com生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1 o& n& y# U' B, k

; z1 ]  }5 d! Y& |, H厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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& p" u, ]" R; I  E9 a3 _厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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5 B* j; f! C0 {5 n) AI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.* p- ]# Y* ]2 r3 `

9 g  J- X9 {7 X. m- ]: VOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.; l. U1 @! u6 n! f) N, t

! e1 i) m( P; U8 v9 A1 Ixmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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, ]7 f$ R; n$ h2 c% A) k4 S2 Zxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟2 ?9 z) E' N+ `' b* O( A- p, [
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟9 n' F5 h+ \4 r) c' e- G

9 Z6 W0 m! {" Y' CHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.& y0 v: x  w8 w* L7 L& o; @/ c" m9 d
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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8 M; A( s3 M+ R( y& k6 IHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.2 G) f  U8 n/ w; u! r" i, x% a

8 z, I1 T/ C0 I0 V. N$ G, x- h, C厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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& [; Z+ a# Z) u' qLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟4 K  K$ L1 ~9 F- K
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
; c) L, ~( j) O- qxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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