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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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3 R: _* v/ f. e* p/ X: f0 o7 `xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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" c5 x1 r  r9 Y4 q6 ?$ `+ g- Y厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。' B/ N0 U" Z1 c; Q) c
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。3 d4 k7 t# s3 m! \8 s
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?% B: m5 s/ {) R' t

; z! I: H6 q" Q7 ?8 }厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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& J1 h) m. Z3 b; U/ I' n( E* \, Xxmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。% A& @. E- v! W
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com- R$ ?; T$ J  r0 m

' e: b2 T! I- e  U他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"1 u  P0 y2 r% v& A* |" }" R( s
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。: r, a% s* ]# a
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。# \! e3 F2 D* l5 K% P+ }
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。xmjeep.com, m! Y9 v8 w. x: s

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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; n0 ~" p$ o1 O  P厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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* K" p/ t) w! AHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am." ^; r$ U5 g& `8 k" c2 G% S& Q

8 H6 m( K" g$ I& eI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him., G7 H" k1 e, N4 E5 U. K

: r2 v3 O' J" t$ y3 \! }I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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1 r/ R9 x3 O$ k0 [  MOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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. E7 Q2 _/ j. E& fThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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' J5 K# J4 c) V9 r  aAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?) V# h8 z7 `4 H

% D" n! P; k1 [8 U+ |厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".0 [9 q' t) i1 \9 p; Z
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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8 ^8 `  g' y' G8 VTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.5 Y0 T. ]( k$ y1 C7 K

, a- q3 H4 t3 G厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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6 s, }7 V  d  k7 Z7 vLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8 `& t6 `8 n$ \0 O% F* r
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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