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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。1 M) u" n) ?  t3 L- S+ M3 [" R0 r
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。  H6 k9 z. t6 b: U

9 v9 R1 w: L" b9 |: g/ H厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。+ ?% l% L" h3 n

( L# `( Y2 u! Q- w! txmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。6 c; Z# U( b7 ?
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。- r! K5 q  t) N" G

1 H+ X& @$ k+ `- G9 k' u我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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: T- ^/ _1 R! E4 }% s* f" |) k厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。xmjeep.com3 I" N+ P8 j3 I. k- W4 n* ~
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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) ~. E2 M5 `, V+ c% S) Oxmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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  @7 O9 I8 k- E: f+ Z, S9 a$ Q当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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, h3 b' }. z' _& i最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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: W& p8 ~; {" T6 G$ d9 k厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.5 n" w' F; ?/ F( j
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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: P6 T& g) n" d, \厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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1 P4 T9 |" R. i3 X' v+ ^厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.0 s  {& U7 r) d! N, H
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟8 f: d9 f; i% y0 H

* y0 j9 K3 O. R" @* R: I0 ]I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?. h. Z. ]4 r1 ^" ~1 P

0 v8 g6 @. j2 t/ \* b( j厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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" m$ y. x2 O% |) L6 j8 ?! K9 `  UI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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! r  u6 Z3 k" B% f! q2 x1 o1 j( t- H厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com0 U- g$ S2 ]4 ^8 u8 `& U

9 V# }$ e0 g9 _2 M9 Z& Z+ m. C& E, LThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟9 \8 G0 |- |# M' M8 }1 s( o3 u
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.. }; `. g9 y2 s

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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