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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。1 o& \& O1 V3 `3 @
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。xmjeep.com3 u0 l! l0 {$ W' |. K! _; p6 B9 R
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟7 K6 u% e; J8 d- Z

+ N; f1 ]8 ?* E2 {% u看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。5 J) `& J/ ~7 Q/ A
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?+ y! G/ m: x+ Y( L# D4 @+ U
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。, u9 g" X7 Z4 ?0 _" L
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。: O$ U* w6 E+ x( ?% a/ X
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟7 v# B( A/ K* u  r4 V

6 r) u8 S* r2 P& I7 x8 s他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。$ g" ?1 c/ K6 f8 C
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。": x1 J3 I3 u/ z

% z6 M4 s  f) d0 z9 z5 w9 `当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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% w& h0 r' @! U' z2 D2 T* ]# d真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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# n# W- s4 F2 @; K0 [1 p+ yxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟9 S' e, H, T2 r

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain2 ?( o- e3 G7 c1 H' P
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com- {/ J+ Z( q; j/ y( P% m6 y$ f

- Z9 K) y/ E, Y% Y7 t" \He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.xmjeep.com$ o4 X5 n1 |8 p+ v3 w$ a
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com) L" v5 I5 ]) q3 @5 [1 s: R

4 s% ?! q5 h* B  B+ jThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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! {) a) Z8 h9 |厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.# G! M7 l/ ?7 z7 H' @
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.xmjeep.com1 y% k! J9 Q) K( N0 K+ O7 \6 ]
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?+ u4 R: d" g7 Z' }! R( c7 C
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".7 b; d7 o4 i; v. A
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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! y& w7 U8 E8 l/ o! r. V+ Sxmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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