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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。xmjeep.com; F0 m2 G  m2 w5 [( U# _  D' _

. N  X/ t4 I5 p9 j* Z$ o% N他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。* I+ U: Z% f" J) l1 q- {. a- i7 M" X

  T; O: F9 ?# V- _, m我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。xmjeep.com5 d% k- g1 y( i8 W/ i# B7 R

# P9 L( l7 k: |0 r7 {; S看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com0 T- l& k" G! Z8 k5 i

" v6 ]: |! w+ h3 f( \. k他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。2 _/ ]8 \2 }3 D& W0 x3 h
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?7 _5 a4 d" V' L7 W, |

5 B4 k) Z( j* m1 W9 }他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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* h  L2 D4 e, u1 m/ U& P' b- L: a9 q厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。! W! j, j7 c+ w* `0 \. g$ C4 \
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。1 V! ~+ l  |8 p, F
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain( W. R% B6 m7 R% q3 }" z+ a

1 c6 _7 ~* o+ }5 p4 FIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟% i/ l3 N4 ^) k/ U! V
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.4 a) P1 f$ ~9 D# I2 P$ H% Z
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.2 G- Q! E/ b$ v3 P  E! E
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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9 f# m( N- @. ?% |He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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4 X& a' A: R# c4 N% T8 pI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?% U: k( T6 [4 [, E3 A8 N/ P. A
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟  k1 g% [1 s$ {4 A7 _
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"." j7 d  q/ n: Q& h# V3 h
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.+ q8 S; n5 Y5 _) g1 i$ R$ \

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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