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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。" E0 Y  l9 E2 U) L
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。xmjeep.com5 n9 X) r7 L: o! L  o5 w+ n
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。4 k$ G4 {& @% M7 K* a

6 w; _2 q) _( y- A/ b% n$ G* w厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。0 y! ?( U4 d: P8 v' i9 S# P1 ?, K

) m4 m2 S1 N0 y& z5 @厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟: C/ J( _- k' S# x# l

5 C2 U# l: [! e# s3 p: x3 c我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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4 V! D3 }- i& T8 m  x+ Z+ {  i. c他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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, @- D- g/ Z3 ~6 I厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟1 X) D" B  [; P4 z) l6 m; k
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"; F$ V3 Z( F- Y; i4 I+ d
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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. c9 `% @. M6 Z8 P5 ~, l: _厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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6 c8 A/ B+ ^: Y6 K厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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3 v  J; l$ N: `" i5 s) yI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.$ T7 e/ v3 r( L) q9 ^( N) A8 @
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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  A& i& w4 g6 K0 O/ M) fThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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4 S, E9 f( n: L厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late./ Q( m0 @$ j6 u' h' p% ]

7 e3 D( }9 d$ T" G0 W- F6 X6 dHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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2 a2 `# P: y- O8 H+ a% f' S- ?I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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6 e5 c* }4 g4 c+ O) B5 aHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟$ H+ [4 O) s7 `& @, Q) S; e

- a$ |$ T* t* c. q) r" J; kI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".. n; J9 j  s- i) e' t
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com. N9 D5 l. A) q, W7 U! ^

( j4 O/ ~7 r5 g* @7 zThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.3 w# S+ B; a: {8 I) I3 I
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain." v- h! X9 K( c1 ?9 A
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com6 z( d/ t' l6 X
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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