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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。  T# \0 O" T2 p2 H) D

2 N" I$ [% B. O& P* T他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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9 j7 {3 L! n2 k" Y. |4 t1 j我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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4 E; b9 R+ j2 L- U# N# {% [6 X看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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9 u; c: u- W4 S# N8 w2 u他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟( L+ l7 a* J% P

% l( @$ U$ U  f' \他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。& [; G% X$ n- J- y5 D) C

! x/ c* W; X  Gxmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。xmjeep.com- R( D7 f! }- e2 x& ], z: r
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"% n: C, t9 l% x( t- Z

9 q$ T8 H7 j6 {" lxmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟* y6 Z: l0 D! J: ~6 c
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com5 B& C- k2 N2 ?9 X% E" U2 N

, i$ h$ a* y+ u' f最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。" x% n4 h$ ^2 e$ ?

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.9 Y2 c+ O3 h9 {; Z( \$ n
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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- m# z- a7 W% }4 N% B  [I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.6 i2 u" B6 G* z- V
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound." w/ B. J& q3 L1 W" W5 p* ?+ o

( V  B1 x& B, I: _On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com6 S9 |! r& W0 V( M* I

5 w  s" }5 I6 D5 cxmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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" q. D* c- d" @1 c; }. Lxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.5 N9 r5 O! H" Y. |
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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) {, x6 p5 p) O6 g+ I) L) tI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?- F4 O/ @% U9 V! O  ]

" U- b1 V6 t. ^0 rHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.( T, b  D2 N6 J' v0 {& ^

' d1 E0 ?1 E' e1 s( GThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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6 ~- h% q0 N: P7 z; P6 Axmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8 y3 z) }8 i" }  s/ j7 Z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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