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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。+ a! a2 A% K1 `% q# z
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。  z; L! d6 h" b) h. r& [/ e! T

! |3 d& _" D: S我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟& q3 X7 x8 {  K5 ]% |( j

0 _! |; G" I6 n: S; E+ g看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。* v0 g3 j. B: U* X9 q; v7 H5 A

& y1 j5 k: ^5 Z5 ]" M3 b他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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- U8 Z5 r3 b( _: _他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟" K* c8 [, i$ Z) c" W. y

+ p$ Y" D; l3 |$ C我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。3 e1 u2 r! T4 U2 R$ c+ C9 f
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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3 v, P5 c# g& C8 }" w+ w我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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* V5 m  V: c. L# `$ {; v* f  o/ t他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"" j8 n, x6 A" m

. R# W" D6 \0 r+ L& f0 M$ M* o3 d当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain8 a" j  C& h6 I* D& M4 G* b5 p
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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, H0 D' T2 C" q. `/ sHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.% U( y' [/ M: i
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟: x7 d8 s: Z! O9 ]
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.. W! X( v  |5 Q7 y7 P* ?

* X- o. J. T+ ~( G+ R  eThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com2 O+ P4 I; ~9 \' r9 I% e! T# k  H

$ i: T+ L4 A: \) E% ^+ YI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.9 A% A6 Q" n1 t0 r2 \" l& T
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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( D1 M4 F+ B& H; _! B4 v% K, c* FHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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9 n5 J4 M! ?2 AI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?& k5 s& ?7 g" Z0 f" \
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟, [1 q9 Y; ?: q0 V0 [, b- i
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".7 L5 ~; ^, k: Z* E2 P/ T

5 s( y$ h9 `9 z* K$ E( H2 Bxmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.( T- ?% ?$ P# u9 r6 S  O
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com; X+ ^( B% m3 i) G

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。4 `& V- O! r2 }+ ~/ w9 o+ h: U+ y
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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