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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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* s. O$ L" e4 @( ]" v0 v+ I他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。/ a9 `. C. T2 x- Y0 {9 q: S4 w" b
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。* j7 t1 w/ j9 E/ u) S7 ]( X- n7 _4 g: Z

" n% Z4 T8 H/ {" @厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。xmjeep.com& L/ i7 l' g, [, q

8 w+ f! |; }( k& \4 L厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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2 n4 }2 x0 a& s& d. n! F% r他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。( q% Y% q; O7 N  G9 r

# ]5 r; \3 s7 x. N3 m! v我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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8 e; s4 G% s# yxmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟4 i# `, P! B, }  e5 @

) Z' F# L- w0 q6 w$ r他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。: e. i/ f6 ]8 D

  F6 b  s4 g* e' X5 o. \我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"; f6 r5 k8 V! h7 G* c( m4 P

5 A. m& s: j0 I5 q- E, Z他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"8 o5 O. I' A1 P5 N0 U$ a: ?

/ w0 ]* t7 C9 F当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。8 G3 B+ G1 K- w! `5 v" ]: e
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.6 {+ |, }: c$ l( ?
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.$ k3 u" I+ i' Z* v4 l1 s8 n

: p& `/ w$ O% II took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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* l* Q3 c# \. [9 @7 p+ uI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.6 E" U5 F1 U$ ~" l6 _$ t8 O( l
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟0 |$ s( j9 n& t7 t: q

( g, u9 H* M$ ?: h厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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& U& J: `$ k6 y* B7 H0 q, c& ?- UAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com3 z+ `: V* T9 u

- I6 Y: p, l3 d& f+ J" a4 a  BHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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+ L, }5 M1 v) i7 e厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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# S7 e# R3 t/ y3 m# L) fxmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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) M* K  C, |4 a  n/ c% I厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
. E5 _$ F# v* w& P5 a, S3 u. Pxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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