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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。( D  T0 i/ j& K2 [& p
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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9 V) r& _( I9 i- Q7 C  m0 L* w看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。9 W! B! }3 r0 Z! e% Q7 J; {
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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. N* B) x, c7 E+ D# d他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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6 `4 _% Y& C5 V$ h5 X厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。xmjeep.com6 ?4 ?* e; B# E. d( ^3 o9 w
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟4 @- T. i, x; ~( p, K
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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3 L0 c: v" H' Z我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"xmjeep.com; Y+ a- r* E! w6 L0 J3 n

* G( w7 H  T) t3 Y/ B% E他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。": A* u! _8 S  o8 t

% l9 C7 O) K1 U" f当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟/ S$ [5 ^6 E! P* }. i4 c& i- j
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。xmjeep.com8 ~" B2 D8 b  u4 }2 X& w
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainxmjeep.com! ~2 i1 L( z; I9 L4 _. ~( o. e

9 y5 n6 W7 g& Q) A5 [- E6 VIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.: J1 t* u1 o* O
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.4 }8 `1 r, e, C

" j* W9 m* v0 I! K" j* z厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.  n: z: |4 G2 O. ?% O: r

, Q1 S4 E7 C+ n% @+ k厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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$ _; K4 M) c# f  @: G$ K6 u6 P+ qI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟, P  Z5 G/ ?+ y/ p. s9 w! p4 P

' `% \0 p4 I% G3 _9 gAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.! G7 l& \  F- Y' T: l* c( b1 b! M
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?2 t9 E# E" E- i& x" g

$ Z: e& V7 }6 ^- j: b% P1 mHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com2 q. C9 i5 _6 j  F/ g3 U

+ x/ c& ]) x7 Y2 T  J' ?% i8 Nxmjeep.comI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟: Q8 j* Q8 w/ ?5 p: ~! E4 `
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.- ~7 R* R* V3 v# O3 g" |

: r5 R, e& G1 P/ T厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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7 x* U  c9 e7 B( w% ~5 m厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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