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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。" i* x( j& J! V' h% g, {$ U, B
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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5 a- ~7 J* _* T2 |$ B5 U$ q; l" u他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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6 Q" K% {# q1 b4 l! U, m" p* Y我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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' c2 V  C: v# T/ g他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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3 [  T( t) _4 k他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"' _; D; l6 }, _
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。5 N* x& N: p2 h5 R9 P) n- R$ \
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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* X" Q; w1 `5 @最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。xmjeep.com9 c6 H) C& _6 R" M8 U1 Z' L
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.) A+ E  E# Z# b

2 }. x9 |; L  M3 I. L% _, fHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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7 D2 ^6 s7 b! i- p& D厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.xmjeep.com; U: v: K, }0 F) o: n

8 K( g, A* D$ N( V- y! POn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.7 }: b% h0 ?# h
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.: d" ?! O6 [5 y1 `; l

) }, y! {' m6 `0 qI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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: C& i$ P+ V- E. V1 uHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟9 R# d$ K  G0 U( w6 D4 F; ~

1 u7 p! b! C$ xI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?厦门越野联盟6 t% p3 _2 R3 l2 z& M! N
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is"." f! L9 W1 t; |+ I. a( c

  k! r/ c8 y. B& ?! s$ c# |# nI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".5 Q! K3 f. H) i* R) j9 ^' @
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.9 S/ |' O# o- N! a: Q

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com7 t- M( ?4 r: J0 w2 z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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