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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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. ~! x3 `, j0 ]xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟7 f  J  b. p2 R  O9 I1 {

3 Q1 f" E) p$ C- b( {7 X% [( Y厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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7 S+ o0 r5 {. s) W+ K7 i$ x9 A: N: q厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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/ I" @  ^0 `: v厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com9 T0 L; J3 W: q2 r4 m
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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! X% }+ g; I( Y我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?# I  x# }1 h& q7 L, }3 n/ D* M6 n
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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! P  @# J4 z7 G* `) x9 _# s- a厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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+ F, C* O' S% b/ {他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。! U. h; k5 H# b2 b6 ^8 x

% L& k: k$ b1 _. q$ K, I3 `7 d真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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$ l& C$ s% d8 d5 j- s最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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1 |& b0 J0 @9 ?/ S3 Y; Yxmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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. w5 \% C1 g! P9 N, J2 h9 ^! RI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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7 n4 i3 K! Z. n- a6 q3 g6 y$ N4 _I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.# Z7 C6 Z" J1 ~5 e, @
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.6 {& P7 n  Z/ `3 B! T& t

5 c0 d/ d! H. P4 k& q% j5 r) CThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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% t4 k4 u# e& \) C' \厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟  f, {5 B, j2 z- T) v! i% T6 H
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?" k- ~$ |- G: K  n( F5 \2 @) y

5 _' j8 P+ T/ G2 ~厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".: v/ C5 D7 l/ r" n( n
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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: p6 S# ]$ t  o$ ]9 QTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com3 ?2 s% p) J# ~' c0 G
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.xmjeep.com5 X6 z3 h: X6 m0 v2 ]- e& B

) d: R1 h+ e# P) cxmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.7 k4 x9 `0 q+ Y* N" Z

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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