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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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3 g3 K  q; e8 s他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。9 a0 J, e6 r* w0 S, X
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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3 Z  y  W" [% L/ G( L看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。4 J5 H3 H) y5 c7 `7 m
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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+ w2 D6 S% m/ v) i" ]& h! u8 G他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟& X/ A+ ]1 H9 G5 V- O+ n
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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+ }4 z! K, N* d/ }" `3 a/ Q& N, Vxmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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3 w/ r* v  M- J; L. Y/ z9 Exmjeep.com我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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; E7 V3 z7 M0 j他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"$ ?" Z0 T8 y& ?: D

) d; Z' |/ D) g5 F$ x* x4 A) \7 }0 G当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com1 c3 M/ P( d; n- g6 X. w& O3 S
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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$ p( r; O& R6 ~厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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9 s5 b, L/ T; d+ N8 y9 d生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟6 Q: T6 {3 B9 @5 P7 n9 A, G

# P/ G0 I, k& lIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am." t; ~4 M! G1 {+ Q
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.. o: t# S' N0 b4 G" l( I$ g

$ V5 Z, p' y% b  ], R* GOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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+ ?% I9 l4 C& o厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.0 Q( O9 N6 B: p7 b

" X! U7 q; E$ [  M; NI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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0 `7 A# S# w0 U" M) c) S厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?# Q) g, \8 P7 r: ?

+ F  l7 v( I" C7 t' @& H. k厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".: U' g. H7 E, Q* U; m
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".1 c- s/ `, R6 J. |
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com0 M! p' B6 z! ^  Z) K$ L

+ H0 V/ s- F7 w  l$ sThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.2 k! W; f- O  B7 S' z, l
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain." o/ |0 M9 f  W, f5 W* o& n
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。7 T* X& r4 x$ w" a( l2 {
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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