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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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5 r# f- l: h* @3 _+ L他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。' U' g5 a! M! P4 C
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。. t1 l+ D4 ^# p
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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% f+ Q) \- ^* g7 H8 }他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。$ ^" p/ M2 f4 z, ^
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?4 z4 {! `; u' F
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。* p2 s7 w: @$ q% [* h; F/ v+ `0 b
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"xmjeep.com( `$ e, o4 t5 B+ i" O1 V5 d  C

" p& ]% h1 g) ~8 G0 I, x他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。. x3 P8 C1 C- L7 k3 a. |' \$ x6 y

, h# a/ L# ]- a" ^真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain4 w  h2 p% a5 b1 K: n7 F& e
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.  W  z! M: `# _: G7 Z# ?

1 c- j( Q; Q5 i- t- D2 X厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.xmjeep.com  t* x7 M7 r# R4 z& X; f# ?

2 g3 a, d% T6 p- B; RI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.% \. [& b, A8 U8 y' r) S

' t2 D& t  N/ L$ N0 V7 I$ XI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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+ ^# I  g. j' ~5 n7 T. m' H) K# xOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.( W/ Z2 O* {5 A3 r

9 `+ X6 e3 g9 R7 w4 t; d3 }5 i厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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5 {! L5 p& t8 b% u/ oI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟7 d; t7 ]/ ?; X4 R  G
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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  u7 g; ]% P0 n) b3 \5 r* _厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.2 F1 T) u- _9 {
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com9 W* \# I+ c* ~. b% R- _. M3 T

( E0 T& A9 }. f% x# dTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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5 i/ L- E8 @. n- ?5 }6 x$ v8 F( N; ZThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com7 T5 G% Q" X$ ^6 o' C$ b

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。) }8 o9 [  R' m7 @( K7 c) B+ H
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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