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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。* e7 @2 c/ ?3 O) @* E
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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$ r/ ?1 z* Y" Y& K看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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8 E7 E4 y8 s+ O4 x4 _他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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: l& x( X6 i1 t4 l他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。# E, M: I, o3 j( C; o9 ]4 C

" Q, Z# R+ \3 y8 i- U0 v) R我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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' [. {( h1 @" W, B8 n+ t厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟- U) l0 z# N: U; p& l
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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( m# r' K/ C" U我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?": X2 ?2 J% k& ~. q' k. B, O
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"4 p% M+ T4 m2 q; q
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.  Y, H. `' T1 h( @* G

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/ q8 B4 |# X, T+ |I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him./ S( q- _/ N4 t7 |' d8 o
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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, s6 n* g" Z9 [6 \$ r) X8 SOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.# R- D$ O/ d8 @0 F1 m2 D
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.xmjeep.com  ]* D0 o" g# l; d+ Y! m

3 l) ^2 {# u* C2 f! a% v1 tAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.3 `/ u/ W' B& z0 `, I  R

/ B& [( V( m' N9 f* @+ txmjeep.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.8 Q7 T: U4 V; u' B7 T

) Y# N. j$ S$ m/ F# |) mI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com8 Z) \7 X  K, P) g1 ?

* b: \( g$ J* j& R' Q3 W' H/ a厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.6 t' Q3 ]2 a" ^2 `% q% v, n
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。2 n& U" c8 c1 Q& j4 v
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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