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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。' h5 Z( I9 {* K$ R) r3 `
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。xmjeep.com- n. j' x( `& ], X' F! W7 D
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。/ A, W" P1 n! I5 L: @
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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6 p$ j% e- i" a7 B我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。+ p( p. |4 O2 x" B% X% l
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟9 w* g" q  ]" W/ Y/ a! ~3 |

7 c" S: ]% ?, |2 h" c他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。", A, U) n9 m; U* u6 H

# T' G- M: X' `. {" V1 ^5 b1 i当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟+ ]. I( r9 D$ q! I4 g( `

; e. ^7 C+ I2 i$ I; ~真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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& [9 {/ g% G( e9 H* c7 A生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain9 i) _3 P- Y' l  C) H. N3 ?. Y

9 b7 b/ S4 k2 ^. ~0 \9 l/ Hxmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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0 N+ c' F2 z: U% k% j' d% l' }He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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2 ?" [/ d1 V$ W; O  cI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.4 Y6 h9 [; f5 f) `* K0 ?& q+ l- g

( h9 \& @: n: HOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com/ n. U3 g1 z4 H) `: Y

3 G, T" s5 T" eThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.4 g" ]! l2 |3 O+ J

& z, P% f5 x# axmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.: q' e9 i0 K1 A

# F' Y7 A- B6 ~2 N3 U/ l1 K厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?xmjeep.com: s8 K, d" A8 h; f6 n$ n+ ?5 ~6 x" \

0 c. }5 D8 ^- c0 o9 d- m5 `He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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+ ~5 o: z2 a% q% f" g' U) TI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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& r& }! m' o+ x# UTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.' n/ X, n4 \2 N  S% L
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。, h7 c3 n$ X( _, u$ S/ \1 y
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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