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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。) v6 x$ y! A1 i' P
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟# x' @9 i5 \* E! R! r7 y) O7 Q
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。( N" H' D1 i) c' T  _

2 K( L# \" h7 N% M: G看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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( A% D, f& E6 c( l, Y厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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+ ?! f. V9 Q; m- fxmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?9 j" x* Q' b. p7 z

. k' ~) b! o: O/ Z( h# X0 X5 ?他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。# k$ }( J, v) F) Y
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟% Y" V+ D9 \+ ?" K+ m1 D4 x
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.5 I0 c8 S2 A# J( V1 w2 P
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.1 m! j' s; b0 J" e

+ @2 x+ F/ |; ]The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.7 G  N) ?& r% V, F8 P7 Y
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.xmjeep.com: w, |4 r$ ^/ P1 l8 A

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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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5 Q) I/ Z( g# w; s+ L% J% a: ]# F" t7 D) R厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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5 e  {- \0 k3 C; B# V7 EHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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% K& I7 A' A8 Z# H+ QI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".1 K' v3 n# }: u% m# T

0 U& F5 V/ N/ P8 g, PTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟8 Z* D8 M1 C$ b6 v4 y- D; N- `
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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