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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。; [$ n# C4 p* \7 o8 v- ?
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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/ K. L: p- Y3 b) ^$ H$ m; D" L我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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5 q/ @6 U& Y6 F& i" T- Z/ Y- Q2 `9 S他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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- d0 ]8 x# R6 A) t我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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( B  h$ b' C9 p/ h他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。- c5 A' C. l! W6 v9 z

/ i# @* h& {& g+ o, O. ]我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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4 o) D  o  A( m+ sxmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.: i/ ^( K6 l) @  s# w
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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* _6 z7 F( j1 X% x3 \; MOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.9 s, {/ g: i+ G6 E* d) J* _1 v

* P9 q) ?8 ?) z7 m% ZI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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8 ~( v( ^/ R, i! h2 a5 y' ZAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.' N8 I( J& e! T7 |$ a1 Z
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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/ t' ^% \2 A: }- V  ~I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?6 I; H1 B! q4 U( Z

% n2 P# S* n& V! Wxmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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0 o" |; o, ^/ M4 T/ {I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.2 B% \- {; f' ?$ b. X2 _9 E; e8 f$ w5 U

0 B. K7 m& C% f* j4 i8 K: FThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟# |' q, y) C+ [0 Q4 h3 N8 @! m# _& v
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。" m( C4 ?) X! w6 w9 K2 _/ V1 D
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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