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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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) [0 ^+ E+ F- ]+ x3 E. q他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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3 Z. g, C; }  b: J看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。xmjeep.com* i1 ~: M( I$ C+ ^( p; p

' H  E" m+ u" m# p, _+ u& N他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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: C" T2 m. i' Z3 L! Y8 Y; k# ~" q厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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* S5 v. m9 _; e/ K) {xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。* [5 g. Z/ J/ y6 i

" Z$ K! k& q. t; \3 t4 y我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?5 x  i7 p3 M8 j# q& Q( S) v! Q
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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0 K- t. M7 L2 |+ c( X7 L我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"% q$ D! U4 F. d) E" J6 E! V2 D

- Z& ?0 _) {9 g& E- f! L他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟3 N5 U/ e9 H3 h1 V. h

- \. L2 r" S! d% k5 A. C当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。; W7 e' p$ n& ~( N% {

9 |$ d5 V! [2 ~0 C- ?# wxmjeep.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟* m* b1 ^5 h9 \' o
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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" [0 R6 a! g+ V/ g3 xIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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# a* t, A$ g8 K1 d/ Y厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.  f* d& v* p# t; p% \
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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( I5 J, Z3 O( @% ^1 U- J; C3 yI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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% E0 q  x9 ?9 AOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟8 ]6 s! i4 v8 L. T1 j0 l

0 D8 g7 M1 n/ _9 a2 q  X( j% Y9 ~( a6 lxmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟5 V/ Z3 R+ f2 g* B: M( R

+ @0 z# U3 o: E5 a6 N5 nHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.* r! i+ Q9 p4 V1 m
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?9 S2 ^: \4 G$ z  E& {$ `! J

! R) j7 ?* p' V2 |1 S0 IHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com; v3 b" O* z) X' R( R! y: `0 W
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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+ k5 b$ c: c& G9 cTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟; I1 F% L/ F  |: B. `& y

6 I8 ^# D0 W! c, }1 _* [The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.7 J! K: R0 V+ Q& k! ~

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
, ^+ J+ Y, l- v9 ^最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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