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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。3 \5 j5 g# }  m9 N

/ {9 P; A5 \! X4 w! C5 e厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟' M& _( C3 @/ n. i, \+ h5 ?0 Y: C

6 h' K$ C* P& F, W9 D看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟9 D: h  _/ z4 ?  f2 O- G

( b, y0 C  t: O5 U他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。( p4 A; Y; s3 r; L+ e2 ^3 v0 Z  W
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟/ U6 ]6 B1 G, b7 E
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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* O+ e/ \6 F# t4 E9 U$ h- P我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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4 b1 d9 n& Y# P7 O& {( m厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"/ u2 g! a/ y0 c1 C
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟+ ~3 o$ ?! J+ y8 l5 B, h6 x6 ?
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。3 M" k% W8 R# O2 _+ U

; r, O  z/ A2 F0 @% K/ x' e; C最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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) @. {( [, H) x厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.9 F) n' ^  H  V# D
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.9 f1 X6 M* i/ A2 b7 Z) N
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.xmjeep.com+ ]/ R( J; r6 ~

1 p! b/ {- p: fOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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. }8 b0 l& }6 u. WI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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5 _: T+ Z' M, b  y* \xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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7 ~6 W! R9 U2 U( iI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?: \- I! h) |( l* Y; S  [

+ `; Y- c# E* E; `( |2 P7 _He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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9 Z1 w6 x0 Z/ x* j" K6 P. L厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com& r2 P3 G3 _: x

& j# c/ K% o) o3 l9 ^) T$ {! y2 S6 {True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟7 S5 `- O  s$ Y5 T: u% V6 h
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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) h+ [5 b% n4 b% h) n4 `9 K厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。9 K! A/ G6 x8 V* z) z$ o
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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