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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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- H8 N% x& r: [) u看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟+ }& Y( ~* J& X5 W
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com7 n4 p& N# O* ]+ ~0 k! q" G: F+ n

8 W. p5 j7 `, b8 t% n1 ^xmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。. F- i# p3 I1 l4 m+ ~: A  y# Q

8 f) d# F5 b, W0 w; X6 r& _我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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" Q8 j+ q: \& [. R: I我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?7 [3 _7 [' [( s  I# C7 t3 ]' Z
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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* Q) D) u; u& ~我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟  R# v& g. P- {* \

6 z# I. D1 V4 G& X- _# r他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com2 o3 J& i$ s. Q$ D, h* @# ~

" ]+ u5 T/ N5 }3 _3 ~最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。2 X3 o4 f: w9 w, V# P6 t8 M

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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟' w$ ]$ V* r0 K
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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9 o8 }. c" D) ~6 p0 h- Jxmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.  g4 h; Z3 O; ^* H# x& Z

( {' \( S% j. D6 U' z4 ^I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟+ ]" V6 j4 h) U! e0 h6 M

" ?0 M+ g- z$ L/ q厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound." R5 D1 H3 L5 h8 [  x1 ?3 P% L

2 K' R& K4 j& l# h/ @( b3 mxmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.4 L9 [. D8 y% U' Y$ {

( ]9 ^7 D" W7 X/ GThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.# q" B8 M( N, y2 ]! U8 t; F
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.  @  ~- V* D1 V6 L1 b

' [: o& R' g( v% ^3 |4 Oxmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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$ p  R( o; U% P% i& f) j* F+ m- i* tHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟5 E7 x# Q( m8 A" X# {; u

* H% }6 f+ f6 s* kI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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  s$ Z  P. \- U4 n& R' }" V- cTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.' C, F0 o# P3 m) l. q1 ^/ G9 z( t  \
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟' I5 N9 E5 T( ?/ u. ^

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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