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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟5 g% c0 p/ b6 I  l

+ |- t: N; P6 u7 J5 j6 r! _我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟( d% q0 p$ f& H: B

9 z$ U: n4 M( o; S, {2 r4 r& H厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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) F( ^3 e2 [# o1 Z8 F他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。' o1 r% ^  u' y+ l+ Q: a' _
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。2 d& ]! t+ p6 d* q
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。+ J$ M% O, u7 u1 c" F5 c

5 ?1 J/ L% O5 Y! a/ ~! P2 a; W( D# z6 y我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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4 `, q" _6 ~6 y他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"xmjeep.com, [& x7 z; h3 A7 {! \% E: u- J: ~

9 g: W: Q6 O+ L当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com! s6 a5 e& r; J' O! c8 H* j6 P
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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( G" @1 C9 p& ~# ^9 q厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain' `) f. y) j, k
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟. U! o# Q3 e/ Z; V3 @# H) [2 D( A
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.1 u* a& b" l1 O- M5 u+ H  @/ I
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him./ H! [5 n" K2 z7 W

4 X, f4 h$ v6 I# j, M  t8 x9 b8 kI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.7 \4 S& B/ k! |* H6 K4 G$ R
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.  W4 M% m% r' H* _' m
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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! |& H3 n2 P4 ^2 t: H* t厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.xmjeep.com6 w2 W  F4 O2 U2 b7 R1 H
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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9 t( }: j+ R4 `4 t8 I. exmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com. `: n2 P, Q) u1 M$ R
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟1 _5 Y6 @! f6 j4 `4 Z1 `. D

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
6 q1 }( \( u2 _5 Gxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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