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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。8 I/ o5 J3 u$ `3 v! P$ I, ~/ k
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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$ x5 t8 b" @. k+ [  _' S! M, R1 L( G看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。; Q7 K  H9 z" G# h+ M9 ~- o, j

( N3 \" z4 n5 R4 [厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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  l: Z, F9 s9 `我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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! ]/ {# y" @  _4 u) Fxmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟- T( B4 S% [; b/ r. L! }  u6 Y+ c
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"4 Q* p# o, ]( R& `
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"1 n5 `8 V8 c$ y5 w

$ m6 P- o/ D! n4 A' D6 E" @' C. Y" i当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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3 L7 z8 w0 [$ P' O1 [厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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- \! q) @, N! Q, C; P最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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) K& h& ~7 D  J1 R/ w; p厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am." K" H" v2 F) {  e$ w# G
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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7 F6 {8 j+ j( F2 U5 G- |I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟9 |0 v8 Y. P5 g& C% w
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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: _/ t  N% B; R5 u8 I! `( Lxmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟' Y! f% j0 \" y; e7 [& _& M: w

; F4 Q+ B- p0 r& ~, x厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.5 d$ Y2 X/ n% W; N, S

) o; n; y% J) J$ @- \! q1 P- r+ uxmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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" r9 G& K, j+ D$ s, u: hxmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟/ {4 B5 o) ]9 s( J6 a

" H- n! n0 J1 {# A0 jI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟  U2 `1 s* E. _

- i1 a( v1 h1 q  i- N厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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" R$ \! n! J8 m$ }5 F  c3 M( Mxmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.xmjeep.com0 }. i( S: Z0 w8 x" G1 L: e1 H
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8 i8 A' c+ H* n3 h9 K* ]( o
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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