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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。8 R% s" _; ?( T* ~7 L" _- M
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。$ x/ }/ H4 X" B, h5 H5 E7 q6 C
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。xmjeep.com8 G# @" o/ U% T0 U" {3 \5 z

4 S8 u8 u' O2 ]/ Z$ s: J+ i看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?) ~/ o( C5 h9 H
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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5 H5 Z, p& M' R7 w$ [我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?4 q0 {+ u3 C+ L" u  l0 F# O6 B& ^
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"! W4 z4 H- b& d- E
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟4 ^2 p/ M1 B: \; s
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainxmjeep.com9 _; s- s( b1 @0 d+ O
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.3 O% t1 @3 X, n7 ^# B, w; o
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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" v9 x- ]8 h6 |* `. Z! bI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.8 x. R; G0 s# n4 z8 u" R
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound., R! s, s: Z; O
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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/ u4 J; g( c  ?0 }* }The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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# M4 M6 |2 e6 s' @' A+ p: pxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late., a6 t3 E" N/ r
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.& H- p7 ?, b8 ~' z6 g5 J# w3 T; f4 ]" G

- v# Z6 _( s/ @, }$ ~- o6 \8 b0 OI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?2 E  D& h. R# Z0 s. q
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com- G7 m# k% B# P& E

  U/ A+ W, M6 R: D3 dI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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* p8 e( g8 ?9 i) x' \+ c2 {厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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& C* R1 p8 j' O5 V* k4 YThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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