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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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4 {" a% K% E& `. ]xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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6 v3 g0 s! H5 Z: R厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。# m' Z5 J% Z: b* P

3 V0 n1 q5 I; f9 N厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。7 a$ k! ^3 o9 ?  h6 f% z

' j7 J0 ?. ^7 }- v& X* B他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?, j) q; B, |9 W/ s
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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, I8 F+ B8 T" G# N* M厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?7 v- H6 r+ |. q! z+ F- W

. f" ~' D" s) W$ w1 w: S( [, K厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。! ^0 @" ?8 O0 k/ E/ o
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"4 `6 j, l* G6 d3 U6 ~
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 L4 E* i( J8 t0 g$ P* F: S: Y
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。5 |% K, L) M* \/ u6 ^+ F5 G
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain5 ?8 l$ A# |- z+ t, Z; ]/ L8 n3 x
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.: ^  k6 _4 }/ L, j+ U* r

1 o! O9 r4 r' `He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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* s: K4 F. }2 }xmjeep.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.  \; W* l6 z5 p* `/ |" N- `

* L$ O( S0 m2 E. jOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.. f  A7 G0 Y& j, w

. {; J/ P( F* ]5 p* Z6 WThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com& S* {! m: |/ e4 @# y

% v1 \; I" u- y- T6 U' N  d" zI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.( y1 l+ C* m% ~6 K( }' Q7 d
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.1 @: K- ~+ L+ v6 A' Z

2 L( R/ P; S, @( V  Q0 N/ R厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.4 c6 I6 j: X* b5 `

& e  W/ s& U) y9 I4 YI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".! F: A" ]) ?+ s5 q- D1 R2 [% J

" {/ ?7 F8 p7 J( H" f6 PI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"./ D8 R# P& R7 j* x5 @5 c
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟2 T6 M8 l) E+ V' s
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
' u& i1 R$ ~' m* N" n最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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