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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。7 u; e4 o9 k" Z, t; [
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。xmjeep.com6 ?5 a5 u  N8 c' H3 {
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。% ]4 ~8 c. t$ E0 n$ a* u4 l

/ S$ I2 P. w% V5 ], ~/ m看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。/ p7 h$ X  G3 }3 {2 c
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?! v6 W" n( ?6 g" o+ _+ G2 e
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。& y4 M8 X8 Y# W* c/ H; d9 P

6 T3 E7 B& E0 A/ c我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。/ D6 x$ y' `7 ^& z% x1 w( H- r$ y

& G- r* Z: U$ q9 m, A$ |5 `& ~; S+ j0 O我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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/ b* b6 {, V7 Q  U' `xmjeep.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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( b7 d" F) E, Y' B' u8 M最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟; u# x4 O1 o4 C) Y$ j: M
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.4 j( u4 P1 D, Q5 W8 y
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.. V9 F0 [, \% F, {3 P

9 ^$ T8 m5 A; s/ pOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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7 t) `7 e0 V' ?6 J7 L  h1 Uxmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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, _0 o7 L: o& s4 V3 {' b% ~' b% f- lI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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( c  b# Y3 c) GAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟+ t2 @$ n1 n8 x# D& r6 o5 g
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?9 a* T$ N/ ]/ v) f# P) Q
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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% l9 y& h6 I$ a# XI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.2 `0 U6 K" w. y) }
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.xmjeep.com2 Z( X2 c4 Q8 u* R+ v& W! X

7 Z6 A/ C7 Q! Y- F3 GLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。. V0 Q* s# |% k9 u$ a5 k
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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