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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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! z4 x1 z: G9 r( Q6 r他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。, C  A7 D' F4 K# G1 M& c

3 u$ _; ?7 W: E看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。- r( _6 y, V7 j
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?& a; r  l1 Z, ?" w- _/ Z0 r

6 C: i; X  X1 T7 s* [$ kxmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。xmjeep.com# t. \7 N$ F; ^. `9 j# E

- a) B3 O. `" l. J) F# G: }我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。; W: v: X3 C5 P- B1 n! ^
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。& u: @3 `5 g" @# x" m- ~' Q/ E$ z4 e
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?": W% Q& T: m  j

1 Y5 i; p: P/ Z7 ^, M3 i9 ?* b: N* j他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"+ j, J* \" D& S0 i7 S+ P
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。. F9 q# c- @; T) u
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。* O, b+ ]6 I. ^) n8 o

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟1 D4 z, [4 y' }( l( d/ ^
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟  h% x  T4 R( L0 r

1 C7 V& G+ @8 T5 b: C! Uxmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.9 z* h2 l- L3 h  l; a  W( I
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.& w& Q, ~. R6 h7 h; }" E) X0 n" i& |

: i  S0 U0 Z8 ]I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.0 I5 c) M% n/ v3 v2 A
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.8 u3 H! N" w6 i$ Z

- H# q; B( x1 s" C% w1 j5 yHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is"." G3 b' m/ }* F- l4 A7 f9 g
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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9 j- y' B0 t0 ?" sTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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. |0 b+ X; F( eLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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