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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。' J; N4 u9 ^9 A$ h

9 d; y3 a9 y- c8 c, y+ m% v厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。xmjeep.com) y) @  T4 h) k

" s  _$ x' @! T我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。xmjeep.com) R6 [: Y/ H+ g  a6 t/ Z' h

3 J/ b3 s0 a& t- F6 n, D看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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* H3 y! e3 ~1 o- T2 r/ k( o2 E/ {1 w他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?* S( E) O8 z' f! ]5 G1 R# T* A
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。6 G- C4 |8 t1 [4 ?

8 R; R' x) S% V我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。' F; v: `5 g8 L, m

  g; r; O& C: V1 `6 sxmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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: j  @9 U( C% ]( `* ]xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。$ I6 R# Q5 I/ y8 ~# W$ s& F4 m% @
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"xmjeep.com" A( c' B" {7 g- f2 u' i- m4 Z

: e( g; E+ y& S/ B他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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8 h0 N" ]( S; Q- _8 W( R当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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( [( n2 w1 A9 G: j" z3 j真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。9 h/ |6 t1 F; n( t! {

8 b) f0 _) i2 C( g. Z5 [! ^( V生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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$ F6 H1 p4 T# J1 I0 WIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.0 i( D) c" r+ E8 _

  m; ~0 Q" e4 Q7 a& MHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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# W) c4 t* q2 v' \0 R, wI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.8 D  |9 t6 C7 G; W

2 O  @5 n7 w1 A) J0 w! T  ^xmjeep.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.8 u" V0 S- x4 y' Z0 g2 @" X

% e( w- _( y- Q  q$ [9 GThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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8 z; p  B4 p: s& k) B  K5 f4 u: X3 IAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟' m4 E) N/ b& ?1 w$ _6 h8 W: H
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?2 X# s4 q+ S% U( w8 Q
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".( [& |% P/ x) I1 k2 r  e. A
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".% j5 q0 ~& E4 Y' A; {
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟, Y/ Y% C7 R5 e

/ Q3 n( y2 C, R3 E1 V6 |( p% cThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.& n% }8 ]" B4 ^/ X$ x7 y, `

! {6 H  f2 p  m7 k: ALife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。% j/ q+ J8 I; j( E
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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