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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。5 \$ D% s: u; f; @0 B, W# V

. p. N$ k+ v& x% Z; L% I  U厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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8 U/ H: L1 k6 E5 ]8 B+ A我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。- q/ Z$ d2 C- p" E
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。$ \6 q: B( n0 d7 g' c' w

$ ^' W1 h5 M3 i& M厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?3 A- z, R( }% ]6 B% {; Q$ {" ]

. n# R2 O6 e9 r& o* X他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。xmjeep.com: C. [7 ?! N0 V( v; s

) ?. R7 n! d; ?) j我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?+ a* w4 s* T0 ^" K% E/ e
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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& q1 r7 b1 {2 u9 e+ W5 z# a厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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. V6 a2 \. j' ]: h, N8 _& L他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"; \* A0 l8 [# ~. y7 w
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。0 P! _! R, g% O9 l2 C. ^' [1 f
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。/ O+ S# G9 o* h" Q  F5 h
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain! z3 r7 V3 c3 i

+ a& R$ Y( f$ ?& n1 ?  ~It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.# [  s. p6 j/ E9 C
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.; k' a( H9 V6 C9 T2 Q6 S( V

; U  S8 X2 [$ H- _7 QI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.. b3 u+ P& t2 ]7 D

/ N1 z( f$ l: D% q* yI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.) ]  T1 X% F3 n  p6 q; ?' l5 R
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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. {  |. [! g' X$ }1 F- B% zThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.' v) u( z7 J# S- R& m
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?, j9 o9 S7 g0 H6 e# C$ K+ N, P
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com# I" P' [7 d( {- i0 n2 y

8 F/ J# g# a: q! Z8 r厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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( p5 |7 w" F; h+ X3 i6 n厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.. M5 `) e9 Y7 F

/ q( U) N9 H& p* X) {1 _厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.7 D0 R- S4 j/ }; j; n" F
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com2 L9 {0 [5 _5 d' ]
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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