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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟6 N( I/ v: ]( k* \# S. x9 B4 Z) r: ]

% P5 }; `  R6 p  g# e0 txmjeep.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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7 P/ Z0 K# E& o" O: U/ Y他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?9 W% Z5 f  C# h" j$ R

2 @1 l2 R% O; E# z% `; q, r  K他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。) I" u* H3 F; [( W2 o/ {

$ D0 m  l, H- L! X5 \0 B我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?' |; j! e1 g( d: l# B) ?2 h7 g

: ^+ e* K" q) n1 J, r他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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( `3 y. Y# h, X我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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5 i5 V* m1 \- h. S- ^他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"9 c2 \# U/ Z9 N- g8 U' B0 H7 @- K

( x2 p1 f) M3 }1 }% ]  i当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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4 x8 `7 v0 c* ]1 f厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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& i) f6 c, I3 Z& H" o最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。, w% V0 R6 j; x, Q5 d# X/ @

- ~/ N; E( n6 D4 y: v) |0 d+ G生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟. H2 p  `6 j% F
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.# Z; X% G0 Y/ O6 i7 k( A

5 u& y! k! Z* R+ o7 RHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.9 P) U# x! @3 y1 O
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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( [) T2 ]7 z3 |3 aOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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$ I! R: n- t: @3 g; k8 uThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com$ i. F( ^" {1 ?: x5 l+ p

% P& a+ B( C+ ]% f+ {) z! z( Xxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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" ?' s' N7 ^1 c3 Z# S! W7 J! }: xI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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; K0 P2 j. R; cHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com- S$ Z( `1 A5 S& j

' ~: H1 K- @: V. K  }8 D厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟/ T  M6 l2 d9 t) R+ k$ Z

) g" N, {1 `: [, Q" F1 _( @" R1 z. YTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.% \3 D4 a( H" {3 c

( \5 ?5 r# }4 S0 |+ t; T& iThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.5 T/ s. u, Z8 k* W

0 h5 x8 Q/ l& f$ e9 E8 {Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
8 B1 {3 O3 I+ M: Z' U( k! h最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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