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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。, x" b. \1 g" p
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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  u: h( w$ W9 ~9 Q& @厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。" v7 |5 Y1 k7 z& b

' f  y& O. P6 g8 l7 Z看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟% Q+ |# `9 j& |5 {8 V

9 r* ^6 r- Z/ _3 K* A1 E: ixmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?+ U# b  o$ t+ c, g5 z
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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3 z4 j, `2 S. ^) i( d7 D: g8 M5 I我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。xmjeep.com. Y; ~! [7 l5 k. n4 f. }$ v8 `) O
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com$ ]4 X5 R4 B' A/ X
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。3 g$ }" Q4 g+ S; p
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。& m3 M* @0 d; ~/ _# w
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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5 B, q8 o: N& ?' ?: j最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain  s% I7 H# F0 Y/ i( `
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb., k  o% [4 J2 ^+ b7 f, h
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟" ]5 R/ a7 d" R2 y6 ]3 H9 D
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.! I# c; d6 i0 \) q+ f! x" k

/ X: C2 T# g5 B6 i. p# |# A2 hOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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1 i8 {! T3 J4 w! X/ Z$ ]As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.2 d) o3 T. Z; u- h7 M, u( A0 x

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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".# W$ W" |8 q  V/ t: X
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.; X) ]) a$ o1 G& I( C' H' i+ E
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.xmjeep.com% ~+ G0 h+ f/ P7 {

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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