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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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7 {6 \# p1 X6 N0 I" O& k' t  G2 ~xmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。3 P. N8 l  N4 y2 W9 n! e

+ A) O; ~% V4 y) X8 \' Y- F/ d5 u我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?2 P: o3 X$ b! u  F; N8 v6 j% m; d( [
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。% A0 E" m# y) s! @4 q# _

, [: i+ ?) ]) E2 |+ w: H我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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% w* H( u& P  f" C他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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( [/ N  j1 K! h1 q/ o1 Z: U- ^; y' r厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"% ^- G& e% ^5 s

* t4 R* m+ t/ @' ]# @4 a$ Y7 g他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"" x+ k  s% C% E7 B6 B6 X. N4 O

+ i; ^& L( K9 L6 F* e当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。' D# [' e+ |8 ^6 [+ j

& {* Z4 ]% Q2 i* m1 \. W最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。7 p7 |. \; M1 z4 @' r
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain厦门越野联盟( x! ^7 @* B4 t3 d) W

3 d: z) w' d$ p6 G- C. I1 `It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟1 x) U$ Q- t* }1 L# r, U3 o  j8 M
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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/ p( ?5 t7 P+ Q( {0 oOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.) ?8 s+ e' ~4 i1 v7 d3 G. l3 D4 k

3 k$ w2 c3 ?* m# RThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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1 F- g4 T9 l% A+ R+ Q' E8 wI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.! N8 A5 u& C# ]) j# `
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com* y! R3 g) q2 ]) p
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?, i- p. M6 f6 ]" x. v+ J# K

: Z+ K" f9 T/ X+ [, W# I2 U" hxmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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# F( c  s# O. \# y* x8 sI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".' V2 N$ E" P5 g3 X- p. n! @& v4 p

0 w! g6 M+ S1 q3 Rxmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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- y9 c& x0 i! ^* S% E0 rxmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.xmjeep.com/ |# B% ?- {! N

0 a4 g; ]. h$ ?Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。$ M! K# p8 ?- i0 W3 Q
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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