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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。0 C8 @6 w+ y5 k( t4 ^

, J7 o1 o1 t; }) A& F9 _9 k8 A他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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/ f$ H" j* S6 W* ~2 V看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟2 l4 e% J9 w% Y. U* A2 ]
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?xmjeep.com7 s4 P# M3 F& y% o5 a+ M
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。) S: X7 ^/ r) H2 k8 {0 H' O

* m2 j( j; V8 b& P厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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/ j# }+ J1 n/ x9 w  s% s, ?; k- R  g5 uxmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟4 r6 H2 t# H7 \
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"9 G8 V# d* \0 [
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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: E' b) ~% }, Q% g! ?' Kxmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。" T' a5 n# f' p3 S" T+ F9 S6 T

& n' a- r7 V* X& o" G真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com$ `4 |) V( Z" r% g  M* @0 |: o* r
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。  F/ T* O) h- x

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain% _4 [; Q0 |2 m) \& f
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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! G0 S/ W1 O" k  IHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.9 f# ?- g. U& H  Z" Y6 D: m  \
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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9 z8 Z9 Z0 }3 z" y5 yOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.xmjeep.com% \; w( T1 y% \  b# C
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.4 N" J% `; X" {- _$ _0 X. s2 W
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.* `+ W# w' O  B5 a
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?% P! ^( e; X9 |8 D5 j3 k
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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$ l1 ]" A; Y2 m1 v/ _7 S3 P1 x1 ^xmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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' f/ B8 [( W% r5 Q$ U: v) rThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.' U/ h+ J0 ]/ v. h/ F$ L
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟5 M! Z1 C' T. I4 k4 y% m4 f4 y

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。9 m# p2 F" w$ ^
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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