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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。4 p% G+ @4 g) ~: Q. K5 }, ]
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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2 n9 u) S2 ~! k. Q! q看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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  o/ ^+ G+ M. }0 ?, V" p他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟. H0 d' \4 k% P0 B6 p

! K' ~# l  S/ d他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com2 l0 o. d: w' z, `# s5 J

) v  F. J' f2 C0 `# C厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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: h" g$ d% {& c( \我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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1 z, C% ^7 L8 g' @& _: \厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"8 r8 f. _) R. C( g; y% N2 z! R' u

8 m8 G2 {8 d- H; h4 l, E当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。% j$ Y" V4 ]0 @% J( g; A# Y
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。( I/ u  W8 Z: ^

! u4 G/ ^9 R- S7 |" M. ~生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.3 A) a0 T# Q0 h3 P/ \$ n
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟4 N3 w/ r: |- J* A  \

) J6 A* r  z* J. _0 N% DI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟* {5 U% j( ]' `9 p+ l

0 L) N2 ~& y8 h) N2 vOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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- o: x9 `- R; |8 S. pxmjeep.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.6 d+ S) {  t  {0 i
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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8 Q8 Z, n; J8 r% g8 N( J5 |3 n* }/ hAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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- R. h7 b  I$ L1 DHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?; S+ B: S4 O& @1 I& T& z
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟- r6 a4 l: h! z, e6 k4 L6 Z# t" \: ^

0 ]9 B# Q# w, c' R' T& P1 W6 a. Y/ o3 YI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.& a5 J; \4 [3 V+ ?% y. @% c2 f
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.2 l) D  K, k- T$ l

% _9 N! W2 c8 U" s; s2 ^xmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.- c  ^6 v, d( a5 ^  k3 \5 K7 u
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
# z: U. U7 s; U% N2 J# O& ~$ Q. sxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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