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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。9 D- D" f; ~8 @& e

. A) ]5 Y' u+ [+ ~/ s* R他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。- i: z. O' L+ G( Q7 {  T  ?4 p

* _" @( s3 h, I# \: ]! D我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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/ b: C. W1 j3 q4 `. w& i9 N厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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  j, h3 n% a: ~# {* y6 mxmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?1 n1 d% @* T# \$ S7 |+ x- k

( a: A5 `- O2 y7 a0 Q' D& h他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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. H( n7 |* F5 J# kxmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟, F' X* h' {/ }( v
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟- B0 O1 |" H4 K! ]0 S) v8 r+ M

" t8 Z+ j8 j) M6 b他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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  k  b$ l8 B' _: t$ B- q$ k我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"xmjeep.com1 K% e; V4 H; W' n' b
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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" h6 L' R6 _3 t: i; a: B当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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( Q: A: e& o/ }5 B6 w7 p真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。$ L  B: u+ J, O) u" k

$ x7 q, I* m' Y3 }5 t3 m, e生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain4 v& F! f9 v& Z9 g  e

/ J. R" C% N9 yIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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9 J$ i" C% P0 b6 k' S, H' KI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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$ N6 V0 l5 Z. G; E( XI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.% \' r  `5 Z5 u9 x* W4 j

$ J, O5 {* K* d! ?On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.+ B: u9 f3 E. `) Q0 b
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟0 N3 }" ~, v/ K  z1 p6 [
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.; H0 c: p( n- P. m; _: O" x$ M6 @7 f* d

8 q. O8 o/ _+ y6 B* Y9 |9 h/ ^He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟. N, {5 i: c7 D! W  H

' g$ J  p" R0 H& a1 ?# cxmjeep.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?xmjeep.com( V; V( y7 z0 }
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟/ s' r+ u+ U5 Q* _' d3 F; v
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".7 Z/ t9 N5 V* c6 ?

5 E0 v1 s7 D0 w$ t. D$ A" H5 k) Yxmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.( [0 D% h) e$ D) @' X
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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4 x8 ?9 S3 ~/ c5 Q! w! Wxmjeep.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。5 J5 `, i1 ?- R  q$ \  t1 D9 ^# p
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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