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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。xmjeep.com) ]4 j+ e1 S& @8 Q, X
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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6 p% E0 B' {1 Y2 [0 W2 Y厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。xmjeep.com9 P6 X& ^  f9 T: \, R, L1 j5 p
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。xmjeep.com" x& ?7 P# ~9 p6 R) R+ K

7 o1 ^% X  ~' u3 u0 ~! ]他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?- @% n4 ]6 ?& x
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。1 I/ d3 i7 L: }2 ~

2 q: Q/ Z& A1 o  q$ T我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。+ F* }6 i2 n3 @& o5 n- W
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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* s; w, U; k4 b! [( T8 E他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。+ r! o9 |; t' U) d! _. Z& K. Z

1 u; q) F) l& o; s, M厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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# D3 j  k+ ?( n. c; g7 y! r4 D真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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4 U6 O3 @- _6 _0 V& p- [生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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6 x; D* x' [- b$ u4 |It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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( M$ U: ?2 e0 e* [0 u+ n厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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+ R8 b9 q& l! Y9 n) X" d7 PI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.! ]2 N1 M/ u1 R8 C: w) f* M
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟( P1 |1 r. X  l1 o' `
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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' {' U$ S$ e$ {  J  TThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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. A8 {; F/ z+ k0 @" F+ Q4 pxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com6 ^! b( c5 F/ C* P8 @

4 l. I- u: \; _厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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! C8 v: x: E9 s- v0 n厦门越野联盟I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?0 n8 ]9 X0 ?3 f6 U& V8 D4 K/ i1 d
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟, S- m# ~' B* }$ Z5 F- {* V* H9 |7 e
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"., f  |' Z* Q' W8 _7 ^; l

8 w0 @+ F7 ~3 I- B+ n! XTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。8 b5 U. S4 _4 x- F$ E+ l$ K# E
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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