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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。& G5 _" q  `; B6 d) ?

! \& z  F: q* d- F/ P他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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( r. E7 [$ p* V' B% K# H看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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& v( Y' y  ]! V' U1 t他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟) _/ X* }, u4 l1 b3 e2 w

- C. G% t/ H; o1 D0 K$ n他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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) Q5 V* I1 J7 |; Z- k% |xmjeep.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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. o# b7 o9 X: K# n) |! E/ S他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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6 m- N+ n0 h, r0 G' U( ]我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"( P. V; a: }6 W! [( H

0 x7 U$ T( n9 x当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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, Y& f4 P. h7 h! S最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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2 z2 x4 Q! M  Y% b5 K  V& fHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.xmjeep.com# Y) x$ t$ u! W. Z2 i

7 B& s& i9 V* e( uxmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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' O8 ^) e0 T. E9 }( pxmjeep.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.5 b: G2 W, `4 s) q
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.% I6 a' `! T6 u

1 n1 `: Z% ~5 v% z+ a8 u- ]The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.  R# x  o, O/ p" @1 T3 V

/ G# X1 e" W& p1 p* V/ oAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.+ F: l! C+ m/ R$ }, a
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?厦门越野联盟$ J8 u2 W9 z  b4 L/ z
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".0 L  s; e: Q: a
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟/ Y; X/ V0 y" t8 W1 p
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。2 A' R5 H3 M& \2 r
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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