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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。: ^( R( J- G4 a8 W) _( e
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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" m8 i$ B) O+ D( R% r7 g我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟2 s5 m) p: l5 c" x

2 z2 T; ?3 W$ M7 G' L: O" A. R看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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5 R8 x9 y" m0 jxmjeep.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。4 J( N  x& h% y8 F3 s, f) J4 H

5 D! I# V; x8 u& p4 R我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。/ k" [1 S6 d# Y$ Q& X2 K
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。) W( b8 d4 l) u+ \# s  Q3 f
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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0 b) o6 w$ o1 q4 H& B3 ?7 V% W* v他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。": F) N# E( v6 A) Q2 ~

$ M1 H/ x5 r# oxmjeep.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。# V5 k& b( D" Y2 u" R8 N) Y

2 A( w$ l4 a' Xxmjeep.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟& d. z5 n6 {6 B5 _

; D( O5 |5 i( Z. H9 z+ W最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。% ?$ y! P) p, _3 S8 ~$ \9 f

% D3 z  U* g5 txmjeep.com生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com# x' a, d* E/ l$ r: d+ G0 t* a

3 X6 C) x( U# ~) U5 Z3 j" J1 B厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am./ e( K- ]# W( h) i% L' a9 X% J4 c

- l9 L* ]* T- R# BI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him./ J& ]7 d  y" L& G* D
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.+ q1 E+ j9 T- ~- h/ C% G3 m

; Y1 w0 P% t% w% {; k厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟! y  g" S2 G2 U* @

4 p' ]- a+ w; E, n  c4 YThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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6 y7 H9 h% M" t. s, i5 Wxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟- \0 `7 H. o' K) I- m. k3 k' h

! Q0 D+ G# Y4 tAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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; v4 ~# y) T7 t1 g8 a- WHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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9 I% C8 V& @+ _- g. n" n- _He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".- ]  ^& j$ S5 c: a

8 s8 [- B: U. U6 K" G, zI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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2 F; j, K5 F# P9 }0 R, P2 ^The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.# x9 i9 w. S) [4 |. X2 r
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.* P1 w# D# M; d  F% \+ O1 Y- L
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟2 A" b! V' E7 M+ N. S' i" z
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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