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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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3 O5 |  \8 j2 c2 |8 L; ]( |- X6 i他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。( t7 Z1 t  t2 C3 G+ _( s7 i! B
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟9 E3 C/ S# E# q& D

4 Z+ D$ _2 |9 z2 U厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?0 S- d' v! \- n
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。$ e- t1 O4 D7 ?5 T: v

' p+ K0 K) e% B* G5 W我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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% x# ]  d- h* [2 N$ }# `我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟$ b* U9 A& R8 y$ J! C, ?4 Y
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"6 F, `9 m0 R2 ^% ?4 J2 i: Z# J( j
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟+ e- i8 Z$ x+ ?, e1 e4 J& g5 c
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rainxmjeep.com' F$ ~5 q; ]. u- l; [4 P5 C+ d

3 B. T* n0 S: I5 @xmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.9 R$ @( M9 G: }" I# @
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.! F. O* n, Y0 P- u+ B6 R! ]

' G, S, O( O* B: ZI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.xmjeep.com5 I0 }! o- j% x. l8 n5 K* I3 v

6 _1 u; ?9 e; J3 Y# U) D2 M& nI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound." D5 }2 t  A8 f$ y

. Y7 w) f6 O$ X7 D. ]On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟* ]6 k, O" g) A: O4 j
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com* r; G$ U6 m' V

$ x& G6 N  R* |I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟6 S* }/ K+ ~+ P1 F9 A% T- b7 H
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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  r' z+ c" s# d+ i9 z5 t8 S' _He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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9 L" s' g2 D; c- |% uxmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".' V2 C# Y9 d  v- ?6 P# M4 F4 Z
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life"., B" I4 f/ Y! v" [, A( o& E
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com% k& g7 D5 a8 [9 i
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟& C+ g/ ]1 D; Y' g& l1 _; Z- r
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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