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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。, x8 ]) Q) m* \* D

, f/ w) s+ h  V/ V( q. k他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟% f' Q0 r! _0 W; M) L; L( m% b
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟2 [* Y% \( Y& m& C  U' R2 F
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?: c7 u) P4 ~% R; F- N+ n

2 \( D7 n, \$ u( C' s" g! k他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。; ^) Q+ @4 B! x9 a9 [% A

+ |# \# S: X$ ^. z我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟4 E% B) U# v4 [

2 R) ?6 \1 x, m. `" w厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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% n9 d3 l# e& c4 o1 i当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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5 g5 Z( O1 k: c% {# i, Z# J: YIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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  M3 z; e% E- j, ZI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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& I( G. B7 \& _, l7 iI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.( K% R, L, ^+ F3 B5 m& Y
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.! g; N0 o" {8 G3 {" ]. E1 Z
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".4 I, ]& o! p4 K; f! H
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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* `6 i$ g. F& d6 f5 `The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟, b' F' M4 X' m

7 L% o& o: N+ V5 T. L/ C厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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