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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。0 f; \2 o% z, a" B1 Z; F. a: H

8 d; b$ r& p+ g1 c$ v" Y9 u9 P: g他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。7 T1 y: \* Y6 P" P+ J; `

, j7 U8 b0 w# G( E$ d/ L9 K我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟7 y; ]3 g2 L. Q  N( B8 C
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。0 k0 O7 R7 T! {! H. d# U" F0 F

+ R! O9 r; [# Q9 P+ `: t8 ?4 n3 h/ H7 H厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?6 O& Y" p) N1 _( ?% D  n

' A+ C- \' i7 Y" v他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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- Y2 ^+ _- _% f( Z3 x! S- x3 x我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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, I) Z8 V3 C2 Y我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟! w" q; z, {, U* |
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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) V6 m& N$ p4 @+ y' P- g当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。) u4 ]4 c6 m' o, I. F
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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# ]' I- b; N6 ]/ i最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。+ X! N) Q7 J/ Y! n, D

; R+ U" l1 |( H厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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4 G7 H9 I' e  F" K" |9 V5 |) OIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.厦门越野联盟: ?& c  T4 l  U5 [+ Q5 n

0 z" S. ?' j' wxmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟3 k6 t( G  b1 V# q4 U

# s9 I$ ^" ]  P, t5 ]I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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3 x  C, z' `7 U/ ~I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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, P6 V2 s. O/ P2 @' r厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.xmjeep.com& ]# d7 n6 v& g' U2 `& `5 [& g! z
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.xmjeep.com+ |3 P0 Y0 ~* O+ i. ]1 V

9 j/ v8 D6 h9 H$ v8 LI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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3 G* _6 _7 }' [$ _' d: H厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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  p; c$ y. l, C; HHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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* f' C4 m- \2 x7 Y# x6 |I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?( D5 a" Y( y( ^. g
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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, Z9 M. D/ e+ e$ Hxmjeep.comI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟% A; u- K! F, I  ~8 N" K

& x+ f; R+ F. `9 O3 m* h3 N" u' GTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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8 h* f# v, J) Z9 ^1 O6 @$ p9 M2 cThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com6 u( ?! W  Z  d9 o4 \
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
+ U/ S/ ?  e$ ]厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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