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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。xmjeep.com! I" @  ~$ V- Z/ H" l5 j
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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; i: [3 o% J1 r  V" x' j厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。xmjeep.com, I" A4 b2 `2 x' j

5 q: H! u6 M# Z' @' r. z  f" g他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。% [) T0 S' L- {8 L
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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+ B5 [( _- s' a# y我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?) M7 N/ ~% B! `% ^
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。1 Q5 C3 n4 K9 o

) Q% u; @% Q7 \, b+ l厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。# N' T- O' i6 A' c: d8 v+ @

6 z0 ^! J& l8 _* Q  V真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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* h8 w7 M: r/ D6 ^最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟9 ?1 {5 s! K" F7 K1 f6 L
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain8 E* R% v- J/ Z9 L7 C8 ?* V' R6 J- E
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟3 `# D; y2 S5 ^1 y; W. J# l# }
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.) R3 B( u. w' s, n
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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. G6 Q3 F5 Y0 `+ V- I$ F. b' iThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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) M9 c. _; B0 B. K) Uxmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.9 [* O2 {9 K7 I2 C, c  v1 }

1 V/ J1 T- m; d5 P3 @xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.* X+ {9 }) m8 a
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.5 b% x. @0 ]8 D* j. I/ [( \/ v
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".xmjeep.com, o  `* X9 M- S( b! f7 g2 P2 F
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".# u! C: {7 O% S0 g/ T! N

) Q# k2 X3 ^: U5 g) H1 p6 s0 S  Hxmjeep.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.4 T& K5 C0 T  q& V

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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。  }) R+ Z; O5 ^7 r. T+ c
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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