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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。: l1 W. R" O& ^% W( B. U

3 l1 H5 ^8 B/ u8 A6 {" o+ e他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。+ T7 f2 u. I: C' U( A4 K

! S! \9 o; s! k9 c$ Sxmjeep.com我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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7 [  ^. h; H' A2 m他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?! H; {' c. o' T. w+ N2 y  h3 ~% X
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。, G2 h' j0 j1 A

: ?- x9 r: X1 B2 H6 c6 L3 e" s# i我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。# u; |9 i4 V# Q! V

7 \3 B' k6 k8 w0 _xmjeep.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com( A$ @: |* ?- e8 [) X* a& M

* \6 Z; F. R! x4 f/ Y) l& {xmjeep.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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0 {+ O( Y5 D- q/ Q+ `# x他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"& _- h) b. b0 v- ~

& G! T* i6 ?3 S0 |% k' o# E' i$ F当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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9 `; K0 O( O4 B# G' M2 A( W% N真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 u8 a. u. }! l5 I9 g; ^% s  _' ~

9 e7 L! n3 |  Q3 {7 l/ V1 `& W最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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7 d. G( A9 ^7 y8 _+ d' e$ H* g厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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- h, s, _1 b$ @2 II took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him./ f9 H5 o5 f$ N8 s

( r! T4 n- k2 E7 C. K1 Z: SI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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. z6 O' i% u4 rxmjeep.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.$ E/ K- h# V) A4 M: \4 G3 z1 V0 @/ b
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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3 p! l7 v+ n& z& c- O5 jI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.3 U1 I# W: {* o( l
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.9 I' a: w0 P8 X- y3 S9 q- b

& [1 P& y6 i6 }I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?4 I1 X  k' {7 z4 u9 K6 [
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".  y8 A7 |6 G0 r0 w* n, V
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com$ k& U2 Y- S  \; U
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中文由BOKANG翻译!

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
8 s9 S) u; E$ T1 u6 J: J( nxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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