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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。  C9 C) m  K+ o8 p
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。. t' D& I4 W5 H; \. s+ u
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。xmjeep.com! ]0 b6 U7 B3 H- @

" b8 A% s. G# V" U3 y# W& f我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com/ G9 R$ M+ |: [4 G. e  p# v) E

/ f1 R/ t, y# V8 \; b. d% j8 m厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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  Y& J/ j( `  Bxmjeep.com我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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7 d# t% c) D* c4 Y7 y) t6 P) s他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。# E5 \; {7 L8 Z" A/ V& P

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6 z: B% o/ j; A# Z" t最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain' W. P2 K/ R% {! L7 Y- ]
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.* F+ |2 A. X* Q+ s

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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him., e7 A, M* z/ ~

/ n" Z* T0 O6 [. o1 D/ z2 U) ~/ iI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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3 G3 O# T. y/ g, y( l  P4 m' b* _. IOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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# S  j  _' i6 O; aThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.1 Z( k2 ^+ z: b% d, r
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟. ^8 O/ u7 M% ^$ u+ N
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.0 I+ n( K0 H! ~
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.xmjeep.com$ `5 V, Z! M, J) O) R- b% s
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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% ]1 ~' d' Y! C, ?% ]I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟  z( v) a1 }; ]- u- k" f
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.0 e# i% }" T3 m* {- c: X' ^
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.0 J+ r* r( b% J5 A  e
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.5 v" y" X& W/ u" i8 A" y" Q
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。' D4 D9 M1 v; v7 _  c! q
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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