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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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2 j3 K/ S. F; @他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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4 T/ n6 ~; e1 M: r  K& t3 s0 C4 }看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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* T1 w$ t0 p2 W) O: ]" h他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。+ \) T+ [) M" ^0 {; n* |  B
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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8 A2 V, f. I/ f3 L+ |- l- q8 l我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?xmjeep.com# X5 b) W7 O6 d2 E
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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- v+ _3 ~; q5 v我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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% v4 b. A: t" r2 a他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。". t" ]+ [( ]: l5 u4 R- s
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。, @. K) A% Y& w/ {
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。% M8 J+ [+ S6 r/ }- Z$ D

$ T; i6 F$ q$ I1 Q3 A# P" C最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。  C- x4 Q0 p- G' s

+ t9 n0 i, [1 Q5 M/ X生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.6 _# o; G& ]) k' p

& s( b- `0 ]7 ]2 m* R3 n# q$ b4 @. oHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟+ T9 s9 J( J% _+ z3 a4 p
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.xmjeep.com& h' ]' ^1 o& X' S

# D! Z+ P0 M% K. cI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.  n* ^6 I7 L8 v
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟7 m* a: w; A. D, y( T* I  t

6 w( A/ D! @* J4 Txmjeep.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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7 B5 e9 `% g1 y  o. G7 Q0 kHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?6 _$ z. @4 ^. |) ^; }: u

5 [- {1 ~" M, V0 `' E7 {9 x0 G2 q6 Q( a厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".- X) K" W2 L; \- [$ l& m$ d
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".% g  C/ V  ?4 W- ]$ @8 G

. a9 w, q) m9 W厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.! z$ I" U: U9 g  `! c
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1 p( K4 B9 E& q7 d+ @

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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