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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟( b1 [  S) U1 A3 L% L$ K
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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4 o8 W+ V4 |! m" N( i我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟7 z# J/ {0 m. H: h
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。0 \6 V1 b9 \. D2 z2 P) K
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?2 A- f: }( `( @# K$ q3 y; R( q& q
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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( @9 I+ L0 ^! f0 d8 D厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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" q, f9 O% d) w厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?0 R" n# Z" v6 K  o2 ]* \8 g6 Z

- I$ W: J! Y5 D( n厦门越野联盟他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。" ]* s. [' {& M* R. s3 f, p1 {
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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" L  B+ y' _. \! ~9 T; h. t0 k当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。xmjeep.com. V4 @- I$ q) F8 _  J8 @

7 e" D. C) H' @' A" q9 A1 T) [真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 @- c! R! k+ N+ t! q: r
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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2 n" U+ t( O/ ]& Y1 D厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.xmjeep.com5 K+ E7 N& n! v

5 B6 q7 x* L5 L9 w8 }) WI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1 X8 Z' u% K, Z7 `. W/ A

% L6 o4 t( j2 Y- {2 o! rOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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  a) i$ t* r7 ^8 a" \$ r: q& T厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.: x; A' l7 l% B) |  }1 U/ V
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.! u5 y# ]+ N* X2 M0 ~4 d
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?( y# N: ]) ]! O9 v& [8 U# S
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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9 z- F# t" t( T& D" I$ J- Z. b+ wI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".0 `# ?; N" [" f" c: h
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟1 U  E2 ]1 J  ?. S0 O

. l  F3 p$ k/ w" }$ p6 G3 LThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.8 O$ M3 ~) e4 S( T3 r

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