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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。7 e; `( T8 S6 t- i" d

' O* m3 k9 G* F看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。2 {$ y+ p& D3 a- B  R, y6 N9 j# t

" D# {1 Y# F7 m! N3 m厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟. w- f& N9 i: I% d. ^. O
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。! S9 L- n8 s/ O5 l  u' x- w) e
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟7 {+ U9 h5 R& E" ~& e
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟2 G9 ~& J& f' U$ {3 X9 j& F7 z7 h

& q3 V( w" d) W0 W8 S  [/ h: b! [' K; o他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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* ~" \% C2 T. ?$ r我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟. c3 g1 j3 m! x
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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& a7 W/ M( P% h8 D* A厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.8 \- P, v$ b0 h$ I* L& h: @! |+ G- L
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.xmjeep.com7 @  H/ N* {5 |6 U2 L  p6 h# c

/ J5 M, h% U- E' \% BI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.; R# p+ }; D% w
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.) a4 |: g9 Y2 i. o. |
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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/ [, v9 w8 P2 |+ k! S+ mI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟% Q4 i8 [( R: M! ~
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?xmjeep.com* }. Z) f) ?4 o- H2 F& b# ?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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  \. s/ q/ ^8 ]  i0 Q& w' A3 gI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".xmjeep.com$ v1 z) [5 r# m1 ~6 B

. ~; ^% F/ N: L; W' |, B. \True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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6 w. b+ U) `, H! f$ \The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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% O: a& U+ Y" P% K* JLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.xmjeep.com7 z7 V' k. K3 G! \1 b6 ]- d6 U: ^

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