那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟$ Y  r. }& b3 R) r( a9 B+ n
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他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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* N: N5 ~: `! a  U/ P5 X* g4 A他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？
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他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？3 x8 ]! M) ^) R  T- Y  Z" O2 p( d6 @
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他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟% g; X& i8 c. i/ h8 D
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"
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) K1 z/ w+ P4 p1 {& l( u' ?; O他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。厦门越野联盟$ }) }7 H$ a# r: a; u# |( K5 ?

0 J" ]+ C+ ^, j" Yxmjeep.com真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。xmjeep.com9 w4 S. w2 g% E+ `
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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. _* K! v# [6 C6 _' O8 B* n( yxmjeep.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.5 G! u# O8 Q/ e+ I" S+ d/ b
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.  P8 {/ l; v' Z/ ]2 c7 I, m# C
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.: W4 j6 @! G& |2 c! J
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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# q! X# w1 p3 k) k. j; vI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.% G: h% P. W* d8 u4 A! V
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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) X1 K& m1 _! Q) j+ I: l厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?xmjeep.com& L( L+ X5 d7 h0 b' v: @
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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