那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。/ T9 J$ S0 }! E* `! K* B

9 Q7 q; z. @% L$ r) Kxmjeep.com他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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1 Z5 E* l: I  ]% u# _我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。- W, M% T/ R' {1 L# n1 J# J; C, M$ A

$ G: \$ l- s3 c看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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4 P0 n/ x$ h% p! b) W他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？' O7 I6 [: y% C; C6 s* J

( A6 x- D3 B: x* ]5 {" @他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。
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2 B, q: N' v. t+ K/ Z厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。9 W" V. V5 ]# T5 h6 S5 G9 {2 J, \1 ]
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我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？
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; D% C' ]6 p- B6 }2 ^他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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0 G9 x0 t1 W$ D, ]+ w$ P* Z! v我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"厦门越野联盟6 V1 t  E* v0 ?

$ G4 W. w. ?, g; H5 \他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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( u) {/ W  S5 M5 [生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain( [$ H& {( B  E2 j) R) h# g# h

2 d) f# q! S8 _; _8 Z" |0 I- QIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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( V$ Q) e9 Z" c" V' X0 xHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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- @6 z: z4 P& N8 Pxmjeep.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.xmjeep.com6 x8 {+ ]1 ~8 {' n6 i5 p

* c0 A' v. a* u$ _" B1 v6 xI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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% ^7 g* Z( n% j+ sOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.; N) }& C; {% D% T! f
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.: C2 h) {  p7 J) E8 p8 f

+ Q# \6 T$ @' B9 K( u1 sAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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0 U0 b- h6 f& X0 v; ?' W$ Vxmjeep.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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# L5 z( s' z! `* A7 e4 }I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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! A: F- S2 x: S$ n$ P4 U厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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/ r" g6 O3 L- [$ Y. H- STrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com/ K+ D8 r, M0 t: \* s8 S0 p4 c: C! O) f
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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