那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。0 p" M, o! r. j7 n! }% e+ T. M* l

( ~0 w1 h5 O4 s1 v他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。& c# M( d/ v  J/ r

3 N4 @* ^& Z1 F9 c0 cxmjeep.com我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟: `  G( l/ E9 l; S# r

/ @# N7 ~0 L* N( e% q" L: `厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？
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他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。5 m8 x  m7 Z1 S' y+ l4 v8 a

9 X: l- L$ R8 L9 t+ R厦门越野联盟我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。+ o% E  K+ F: B0 x8 C' ?* E* J

2 M* S0 ?0 @% O; ^& m: T8 X我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？厦门越野联盟- J( t) H3 T5 s# y3 Q& }0 O7 g

5 U9 I. |" u, u- F4 L1 k- ~他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"
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他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。( Z; I, f1 j* Z. R

" v4 w3 m& P5 uxmjeep.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain( |8 @2 `1 {3 z+ X

' _) i& F7 P* b. qIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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7 \9 s: B/ |/ O; ^& H" _* Oxmjeep.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟5 x" a. H* Y; l8 n3 r! v0 t

  B( v1 U) b8 y  e2 RI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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9 P0 X. _* ^* Q9 g1 k( OI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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. x+ F- g+ `* Q5 q' {; [; p! r1 a6 |On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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& u2 [2 i0 E* A9 a( I; ~* `! v3 [厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.$ C) E& Z' l9 F4 x# C+ P
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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, q# i# N& g, @+ s0 c0 V: X% mAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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: K* M- V$ p/ s  wI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟8 a- x. i& j. Z, D5 E2 @" w

4 _6 h* h* u6 w/ pI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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+ @' e4 o5 E" {2 U% iTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.- u, V& _7 Z) v7 O* f

& u# ~) q- K5 H/ c: k, e2 Mxmjeep.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.( |9 G8 P* X, L! v2 t8 c8 r) N9 {
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.2 ~+ f2 L( S  P' s1 R
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