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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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  K2 G4 m5 _. d5 e2 ^6 M% Bxmjeep.com他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。" ^5 D: m9 Y- i! [& Y- Z  G+ [
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。% Y0 H/ x$ o; @# y4 V6 L! b3 |5 a
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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8 Y0 k1 a) ^- H他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟  o1 ^" c4 V. b
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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6 a! H3 f: r+ F$ n厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟0 [: H- N7 Q$ o* `

% K, K  H% N6 B! @$ s) R他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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  C+ I0 q" P: [8 Z7 b, L厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?". @9 C3 [8 l/ p- y

2 V. k3 E" O& l* K0 G他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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2 K, q# V, Q, T, j& R6 a厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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/ C' q8 |9 e4 ]厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain9 D  m' u4 c% O; t- F( C
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.xmjeep.com# R3 q/ u# x" K# @* S
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+ w0 r' S4 ?$ G  f6 ], I厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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7 t- Q7 H; F/ a7 \# B* P6 O! p: VOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry., M% P6 ^6 ?- o% E8 M6 W

# t1 |5 ^# u, uThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.  S8 s7 I+ x& y8 R" ^! Y; y! c

2 R6 A" s9 O+ c3 C( H& G厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.xmjeep.com# m& B- t$ S3 ]
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.xmjeep.com% g6 b; b5 f' P
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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* a7 i) ]' |$ w: f' LI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".$ t! `: g9 y% H- C$ `* u# F

0 M- Q  N5 [1 E厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be." _2 ^" K% a5 R: B

1 ?+ Y# U+ W/ g$ }6 z: ^( {The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.) U. [7 @$ ]" w2 S8 j# S
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟' d4 N  a" }) X  q  C
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