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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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& Q5 z: O$ t  z2 g$ L7 K; `# c7 w我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟5 J6 @* `  [% |2 j$ r: \/ B+ l+ \/ R

  R# b) P- K: P  @! X. s* d0 V看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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  I$ k( v. o5 ~+ m5 J$ K# ^/ ixmjeep.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。$ g2 j0 P, U3 G, T; V4 y
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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5 p- M% S. m) A我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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. e7 ^( q& N" ]4 ^4 C8 v' G他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。7 ^% l3 x5 w: t& T& L
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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- U: w1 w) ~7 k$ p他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。" s! ]& b. q" R: f) [. p( L4 b/ p
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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) w! Z! a' _4 u6 SIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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; o3 d/ r1 P4 j8 K: @: THe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟+ x# r/ b; }2 X4 R' T
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟3 o' d, t/ e# [; V4 m
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.# t5 h% w8 v& O

% b' {. U( b) z) A- o" _: ]* f厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.& X6 `4 k( {8 e# K& S. m) t: j) C6 d

  q3 M  M; b4 M* d5 SI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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3 G$ z+ l, F: T$ ?xmjeep.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?7 a! S, d7 c6 q: U! N" f

% }' l3 q6 I. c4 ?: j4 Rxmjeep.comHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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6 M0 F4 Z3 Q2 V$ `. l) yI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".& f+ Q: m* k+ O8 R
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.xmjeep.com2 G4 y+ c+ y( C" V4 {2 M& z% p
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.. J3 a( U% C  _# s8 s' b
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.. x- }! P7 r) n9 h  P% }8 I' S

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